"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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too many good-looking tall dudes at clubs

ketostix

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mrRuckus said:
Stop blowing these sex differences up to epic proportions.

Women aren't super duper better at reading emotions or body language. They don't have a 360 degree field of vision. They have no idea what you are thinking. They aren't speaking telepathically while you grunt.

Women are CLUELESS. I don't know where you guys get the idea that they have any idea what's going on. Go read any message board relationship garbage for women and it will be full of stupid women who have no idea or worse, THINK they have some idea.
I agree. Women just focus on and put more importance on obvious body language signs, but they are no more accurate nor able to read people than a guy is. Women really are clueless. They don't understand each other or even themselves, let alone understand men. Women are simply prone to judgemental and jump to erroneous conclusions. That's not being clued in.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Women do have an advantage over the average guy, while we were playing football or dodge ball they were playing house. They have been preparing for the dating world since birth. Women are clueless to the minority of guys who are either naturals or some sort of community guy, if you are in those two categories women find you unpredictable and you are essentially invulnerable to her tests.
 
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MillenniumMike said:
Women do have an advantage over the average guy, while we were playing football or dodge ball they were playing house. They have been preparing for the dating world since birth. Women are clueless to the minority of guys who are either naturals or some sort of community guy, if you are in those two categories women find you unpredictable and you are essentially invulnerable to her tests.
:eek: :eek: :eek: Holy sh!t. Ive been mind fvcked! Its, true woman don't know what to do when a natural comes, around, they get all flustered, shy, innocent eyes, and weak voice, boy do i love that!

Tall club guys are like big trees, and im the dark knight on the black horse, being the bad guy that, is having fun kidnapping the princess.
 

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social proof is the most important factor in determining attraction, PERIOD. all the other stuff, wealth, looks, muscles, height are a factor of a magnitude less important, other than by how much they influence the social proof.
 

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Cry For Love said:
social proof is the most important factor in determining attraction, PERIOD. all the other stuff, wealth, looks, muscles, height are a factor of a magnitude less important, other than by how much they influence the social proof.
I'm going to seriously disagree with you on that one. Its a combination of things that makes the attraction. You can't be a limbless retard with Pam Anderson on your arm and expect to attract any females. Everything has to be present in the right proportions for attraction to take place.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Snowman23 said:
I don't care how much confidence I think I have, I'm good-looking and 5'8", and am dwarfed by these douches. I walk by girls and most don't even look at me, the ones that do just keep going. and it really sucks because I'm not bad looking.
Yes, you are bad looking. Shortness is just another form of ugly. But at 5'8", you are not that ugly (I am 5'5", so I am even more uglier than you.)
 

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Daydream Engineer said:
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Tall club guys are like big trees, and im the dark knight on the black horse, being the bad guy that, is having fun kidnapping the princess.
hahaha I really like that quote. Im going to add it to my list of quotes that I should read every now and then.
 
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