You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
High heels? Are you freaking kidding me? Yeah, don't worry about looking feminine wearing high heels.Luke Skywalker said:Well, my solution is simple, wear high heel boots or shoes and try spraying some stuff on if you have to.
a) This will increase your height because you are wearing high heels.
b) This will get attention and possibly make you look sexy, like you are not afraid of looking feminine because you are sure of your masculinity.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Snowman23 said:damn it's so hard to holler at girls when these buff ass tall guys are all around.
I don't care how much confidence I think I have, I'm good-looking and 5'8", and am dwarfed by these douches. I walk by girls and most don't even look at me, the ones that do just keep going. and it really sucks because I'm not bad looking.
it's such a huge hit to my ego. most of you are probly gonna say "oh quit being a pvssy, just approach them."
What, so I can get shot down?? rofl
As much as it pains me to say it.. and I mean PAINS me..
wutang is right.
end of discussion
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dude, it's not your height that's killing you, it's your horrible lack of confidence.Snowman23 said:damn it's so hard to holler at girls when these buff ass tall guys are all around.
I don't care how much confidence I think I have, I'm good-looking and 5'8", and am dwarfed by these douches. I walk by girls and most don't even look at me, the ones that do just keep going. and it really sucks because I'm not bad looking.
it's such a huge hit to my ego. most of you are probly gonna say "oh quit being a pvssy, just approach them."
What, so I can get shot down?? rofl
As much as it pains me to say it.. and I mean PAINS me..
wutang is right.
end of discussion
AKA FLEX said:Dude, it's not your height that's killing you, it's your horrible lack of confidence....
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How funny. I used to think like you until I saw a 5'5''ish guy, who wasn't even goodlooking, make out with a HB9 at a club. Me (being 5'10'') and another guy who was at least 6'3'' just stood around and watched him mack. YOU HAVE TO PUT YOURSELF OUT THERE!!!!Snowman23 said:damn it's so hard to holler at girls when these buff ass tall guys are all around.
I don't care how much confidence I think I have, I'm good-looking and 5'8", and am dwarfed by these douches. I walk by girls and most don't even look at me, the ones that do just keep going. and it really sucks because I'm not bad looking.
it's such a huge hit to my ego. most of you are probly gonna say "oh quit being a pvssy, just approach them."
What, so I can get shot down?? rofl
As much as it pains me to say it.. and I mean PAINS me..
wutang is right.
end of discussion
There are too many tall guys at clubs. I say we just eliminate them like Hitler did to that group in WWII. It would make my life alot easier.Snowman23 said:damn it's so hard to holler at girls when these buff ass tall guys are all around.
I don't care how much confidence I think I have, I'm good-looking and 5'8", and am dwarfed by these douches. I walk by girls and most don't even look at me, the ones that do just keep going. and it really sucks because I'm not bad looking.
it's such a huge hit to my ego. most of you are probly gonna say "oh quit being a pvssy, just approach them."
What, so I can get shot down?? rofl
As much as it pains me to say it.. and I mean PAINS me..
wutang is right.
end of discussion
Post of the day, right here.asid76 said:Use being short as part of the opener...like: "Does this necklace make me look short?" etc. Jokes work well; don't take everything so seriously.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You are missing the point. Your 5 foot 4 mate can pull chicks HE KNOWS from class and has the opportunity of being charming. Place him in a loud club in front of chicks he is meeting for the first time and I bet he strugglesAKA FLEX said:Dude, it's not your height that's killing you, it's your horrible lack of confidence.
I pulled less tail in college than my 5'4" buddy, and he's not even that great looking. He's just a charmer with the chicks.
You facetiously ask if you should approach chicks "so [you] can get shot down." My answer is YES YOU SHOULD. Every "no" is one step closer to a "yes", and I promise you that if you approach every decent-looking girl at the bar, one of them is going to go home with you. If you stand in the corner all night and mope about the tall guys, you're guaranteed to go home alone.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.