"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Too lazy to go on a date

Goksjrr

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Hey,

So I recently fvcked a girl after club, pretty decent looking, would say HB6 or 7 and I slept at her place and we fvcked again in the morning. After that she's been showing a lot of interest, texting me nearly everyday, even though I haven't started the conversation with her more than like one or two times during this 3 week period.

And now she wants to go on a date with me, but the thing is that I'm kind of guy who needs 100% IL to really put some work and get my lazy ass to date, because I'm not sure if I want a relationship with this girl. I'd rather just go to her place again and hang out there (and obviously fvck).

What advice would you guys give? Is it OK to just suggest her that I go to her place and hang out there?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Duke

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By asking to go to her place you will make your intentions clear. She will know all you want her for is sechs. This has a 50% chance of working in your favor.

Or you can take her on a date, and end up at her house for sechs. This has a 85% chance of working in your favor.
 

NSX-R

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You can't have a relationship with a woman that you fcked as soon as you met her in the club .
She obviously wants some action . Do what bradd said .
 

AlphaNate

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You have to be subtle about sex if you haven't gotten a girl in bed yet.

After you've already ****ed her, who cares? Just tell her you want to ****. If she says no, you still saved your own time and money.
 

ThisNThat

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Hey,

So I recently fvcked a girl after club, pretty decent looking, would say HB6 or 7 and I slept at her place and we fvcked again in the morning. After that she's been showing a lot of interest, texting me nearly everyday, even though I haven't started the conversation with her more than like one or two times during this 3 week period.

And now she wants to go on a date with me, but the thing is that I'm kind of guy who needs 100% IL to really put some work and get my lazy ass to date, because I'm not sure if I want a relationship with this girl. I'd rather just go to her place again and hang out there (and obviously fvck).

What advice would you guys give? Is it OK to just suggest her that I go to her place and hang out there?
Funny, this kind of explains why the tea parties are so prominent when it comes to missed opportunities and men simply not wanting to make the effort to date. Kind of like that guy who chose to watch Hockey playoffs than to spend time with a group of single ladies that outnumber the men in the Meetups. lol
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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