“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Too late?

line_in_the_sand

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At the age of 25 (26 in May) I still feel I haven't really had a period where I had fun and got laid a lot. On average I've had one/two sex partners every year this decade, and that ain't hopeless, but I don't feel I have "tried" enough women to find out what I like and what I don't like. Of course, a lot of this comes down to social anxiety, which I've worked hard on reducing (and have to a degree succeeded).

What I'd like to ask you is: Do you think it's too late to have a "Don Juan"-period at the age of 26? This might be overanalyzing, but I'm asking for your thoughts. Now I know there are mostly (but not only) Americans on this board, and I'm Norwegian, so some cultural differences may apply. Please give your thoughts in the context of your own culture - we're similar enough! :D

Thanks!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Ol'BlueEyes

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Interesting thread. I too never had a 'fun period' and I'm almost 28. In fact, I've been laid exactly three times. Not per year, but ever. No sex has made me a frustrated non-sexual guy.
Going out to clubs and bars I watch hot girls dance with guys and DAMN....these guys are fondling, squeezing ass, and acting like they're gonna screw ten times that night. I just can't shake the feeling that an HB would freak out if I slid up to her on the floor and without a word, grinded her ass and slipped my hand down her thigh.
I have plenty of friends, some of them girls. All of them are either married or in long term relationships and really don't inquire as to why I'm the single guy. They just assume I'm cool with being single and don't want to rock the boat.
 

Bourne

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Its never too late. I'm 26 and just now getting out of this phunk. I had 2 long term relationships. 2 sex partners and I feel like I havne't done sh1t in my social / sexual part of my life.

Everything else is going great except for those two things.

It is NEVER too late. You have wealth of knowledge under your finger tips right here. The harderst part of all this is letting go of your past beliefs and developing new ones.
 
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