"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Too hot? Afraid of somethin'

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Hi all,

The deal: I started dating a HB 9/10. She's just gorgeous. Hot, hot, baby.

She was passionated by me and I noticed that. After, we've been dating for a week. Weird thing: started kissing her and etc., no sex in question, and I'm just crazy by her.

When I go to school I wanna always be with her and etc., and she's starting by leaving that passion that she was used to have.

She's different. I'm always the first to go to her and etc.

My point: I'm giving too much attention and she doesn't like, as a HOT babe usually does.

I thought to give her some space...and wait her to come..you know, ignoring her a bit and watch then. But I'm afraid of loosing her because she's terrific.

What can I do?
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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More girls, get some hobbies
 
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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
More girls, get some hobbies
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But man this is a serious thing and I wanna make it more serious, got my view?
 
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Yes we got your view - listen to what he said.

You are smothering her.
 
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