"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Too hot? Afraid of somethin'

Hot? Naa!

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Hi all,

The deal: I started dating a HB 9/10. She's just gorgeous. Hot, hot, baby.

She was passionated by me and I noticed that. After, we've been dating for a week. Weird thing: started kissing her and etc., no sex in question, and I'm just crazy by her.

When I go to school I wanna always be with her and etc., and she's starting by leaving that passion that she was used to have.

She's different. I'm always the first to go to her and etc.

My point: I'm giving too much attention and she doesn't like, as a HOT babe usually does.

I thought to give her some space...and wait her to come..you know, ignoring her a bit and watch then. But I'm afraid of loosing her because she's terrific.

What can I do?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

oakraiderz2

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More girls, get some hobbies
 

Hot? Naa!

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
More girls, get some hobbies
But man this is a serious thing and I wanna make it more serious, got my view?
 

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Yes we got your view - listen to what he said.

You are smothering her.
 
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