"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Too Horny?!?!?

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Ok guys, I just have a quick question I need clarified here. There was this girl who I had been talking to for a little while now (been flirting, spitting of game, etc) and she is a really down to Earth kinda girl. She is a 7 but has a 10 personality, and I really like her.

The other day we went out to lunch and as we were walking she grabbed my arm and locked it with hers. Then she would grab my hand and start to squeeze it (ok, MAJOR IOIs in my book). I started driving and she had my hand next to her leg, so I started running my hand up and down there, here and there not all the time. As we got to her place, we both found out we only had like 10 minutes to hang out so nothing happened.

Today, I went to go see her and tell her I liked her in order to try and have a LTR with her, and she said:

"You don't like me, you are just horny" ... I know I act sexual, but I do that all the time. Has anyone ever gotten this response or knows how I should deal with it? Should I just next her even though I like her, or should I be a bit more mature around her?

Thanks for the help guys :up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Its a sh!t test.....

The girl likes you dude!

Dont worry about it. Dont let it phase you. Dont change yourself and qualify to her. Just say you are who you are and thats generally how you act.

I would give you more advice but i cant remember the perfect response to that question....search the forum....its on there somewhere.

Its a defo sh!t test thow.


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You think?

I talked to a girl friend of mine who is her friend and she said that when I did that with my hand it was kinda awkward (I didn't think so but whatever). I mean, it may be a **** test because I am confused on what going on right now. She brought up the fact that I put a move on a girl from work 3 months ago (by the way I work with this chick) proving that I am horny. I mean, she ****s more then me and I am considered horny?!?
 
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Rocko said:
Sad to say, I gave her the power on purpose...
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Yep you did, that was str8 up supplication telling her how you feel.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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u should told her u couldnt help it.. told her she turned u on a lot..

dude, once ur in or dating or even friends u can get away with stuff like that.. ur a man dude, u gotta be comfortable with ur sexuality(not in a gay way), but u need to not be afraid to show ur sexually attracted to a girl..that doesn't piss them off unless u come at them the wrong way or they're just not into u.. don't be so afraid to like piss someone off or "make waves".. u gotta remember that girls operate on and crave drama and emotions and feelings and sh1t..

next time i would seriously tell her it was cuz of how hott i was for her
 
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haha, no, its not that I'm not comfortable with my sexuality because, trust me. She was actually the first girl who I ever straight up said "I like you" and like I said, I am SEXUAL. You are right though, I should not have backed down, thanks for the input.
 
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