"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Too Horny?!?!?

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Ok guys, I just have a quick question I need clarified here. There was this girl who I had been talking to for a little while now (been flirting, spitting of game, etc) and she is a really down to Earth kinda girl. She is a 7 but has a 10 personality, and I really like her.

The other day we went out to lunch and as we were walking she grabbed my arm and locked it with hers. Then she would grab my hand and start to squeeze it (ok, MAJOR IOIs in my book). I started driving and she had my hand next to her leg, so I started running my hand up and down there, here and there not all the time. As we got to her place, we both found out we only had like 10 minutes to hang out so nothing happened.

Today, I went to go see her and tell her I liked her in order to try and have a LTR with her, and she said:

"You don't like me, you are just horny" ... I know I act sexual, but I do that all the time. Has anyone ever gotten this response or knows how I should deal with it? Should I just next her even though I like her, or should I be a bit more mature around her?

Thanks for the help guys :up:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Its a sh!t test.....

The girl likes you dude!

Dont worry about it. Dont let it phase you. Dont change yourself and qualify to her. Just say you are who you are and thats generally how you act.

I would give you more advice but i cant remember the perfect response to that question....search the forum....its on there somewhere.

Its a defo sh!t test thow.


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You think?

I talked to a girl friend of mine who is her friend and she said that when I did that with my hand it was kinda awkward (I didn't think so but whatever). I mean, it may be a **** test because I am confused on what going on right now. She brought up the fact that I put a move on a girl from work 3 months ago (by the way I work with this chick) proving that I am horny. I mean, she ****s more then me and I am considered horny?!?
 
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Rocko said:
Sad to say, I gave her the power on purpose...
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Yep you did, that was str8 up supplication telling her how you feel.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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u should told her u couldnt help it.. told her she turned u on a lot..

dude, once ur in or dating or even friends u can get away with stuff like that.. ur a man dude, u gotta be comfortable with ur sexuality(not in a gay way), but u need to not be afraid to show ur sexually attracted to a girl..that doesn't piss them off unless u come at them the wrong way or they're just not into u.. don't be so afraid to like piss someone off or "make waves".. u gotta remember that girls operate on and crave drama and emotions and feelings and sh1t..

next time i would seriously tell her it was cuz of how hott i was for her
 
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haha, no, its not that I'm not comfortable with my sexuality because, trust me. She was actually the first girl who I ever straight up said "I like you" and like I said, I am SEXUAL. You are right though, I should not have backed down, thanks for the input.
 
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