"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Too Early to Give My Phone # With On-line Chicks?

CanuckinSK

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In the last few days, I've been communicating with a couple of local women via an online-dating site. Both have children, both have pics, one I'm kinda attracted to, the other one I'm REALLY attracted to. One of them initiated contact with me out of the blue, while I sent an e-mail to the other one to initiate contact.

I tried using a bit of C+F, and it appears to have worked, so far at least. :up:I haven't posted my pic (which are proportionately much more attractive than my AFC personality)

1st girl:

Her- just thought I'd say hi
Me- well it's about time you contacted me

She's e-mailed me three times since.

2nd girl: (I'm really attracted to)

Mentioned in her profile she tries to avoid shovelling snow. We live in an area that usually gets TONS of snow.

Me- Jeez Louise girl, how do you live here and avoid shovelling snow? Please teach me the trick, I'd love to hear it! ;)

She sent back an e-mail which leads me to believe she thought I was pretty funny. (she put in LOL several times).

Here's my response, which I sent tonight:

Me- Great, excellent to hear that you have a little helper. (her son help her shovel). Here's what you should do next winter (yikes! it's only a couple months away...). Sit on your nice warm couch with a cup of hot chocolate as your son shovels your walk. Smile at him from your window and convey how warm you are inside. Pamper yourself a bit LOL! Yes, I know I'm a little wicked, but only in a good way... ;)

I'd like to continue chatting with you. Here's my e-mail address (I'm only signed up on this site for the three day trial membership, so I can't send messages after three days time).

Or better yet, call me at ***-****. Don't be shy...

I sent my phone # to the first girl too.

Also, what do think of this C+F? Girl #3 is definately a cougar, separated, in her early 40's.

Her profile- Kitty**, her tagline- Meow

Me- So tell me, what kind of kitty kat are you? Do you purr or bite when someone rubs your tummy?

Her- Lol, that's funny. I'm a good kitty kat. I purr when I'm happy.

What do you guys think? Was I too forward, funny/not funny? I was just being a total smartass (WAY out of character for me) and didn't really expect any responses anyway...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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jophil28

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You still sound like a "nice guy" trying to be C&F .

Who the F**K talks about hot chocolate !!

Avoid those Kitty Kat women too - there's something wroing with a grown woman calling herself Kitty *** ..
 

SaucyBoy

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Focus on meeting women in person. It's harder but it puts you in control. Sounds like she needs someone to shovel her driveway! You could wind up being free labor. Do you want that?
 

CanuckinSK

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SaucyBoy said:
Focus on meeting women in person. It's harder but it puts you in control. Sounds like she needs someone to shovel her driveway! You could wind up being free labor. Do you want that?
LOL! No, don't want to provide FREE labor, but I would take it out in trade with this chick. ;) And yes, I agree, I would much rather meet women in person; there's only so much that can be conveyed on-line.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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