"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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too creepy to write this online?

seth03

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so theres this girl that I meet up at our company's happy hours. I deleted her off my phone since I figured she was an attention *****, so I havent spoke to her for 10 days. She messaged me yesterday, and said this:


"did you go to happy hour last week? missed the phone call, so I decided not to go :p"


what do u guys think about me writing this:

"no i didnt, i had other stuff goin on. im pleased to hear that u only show up to see me. since i do the same, if youd like, we can just skip all the formalities and screw at my place ;).



.....just kidding. i will give u a call sometime in the future."


hahha
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Say: Sorry, I was busy at a meeting with the president. Maybe I can fit you into my schedual next time.

Just say something C&F that also includes you two meeting up again sometime.
 
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