"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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TOO Confident, good or bad?

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Brian20o2

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Too much of anything is bad. But what do you mean? Do you mean ****y? I cant think of how you can have too much confidence, unless you mean fearless even in the face of death.
 

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Confidence is a natural thing, it comes from within. I don't think it is something you can just call upon to help out your self image. Although, you can better your situation through working out, taking care of your priorities, getting over your fear of talking to women etc. Once confidence is built up to a point, people will notice a change in the way you carry yourself. :up:
 

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There's no such thing as too confident.

New levels of confidence just open up your horizons to things you never thought possible.

It's a belief in yourself and your abilities and when you have it, it's great. You can't tell yourself to 'have more' or 'have less' of it.

When I have confidence, I can only fake not having it. When I lack it, I can only fake having it. Neither fake is convincing.

The other day I introduced myself to this cute little asian girl at a restaurant I was at because I saw her looking at me a few times. I would've _never_ done that before, but for whatever reason, I just had the inner strength to do it without hesitation.
 
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