Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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TOO Confident, good or bad?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Brian20o2

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Too much of anything is bad. But what do you mean? Do you mean ****y? I cant think of how you can have too much confidence, unless you mean fearless even in the face of death.
 

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Confidence is a natural thing, it comes from within. I don't think it is something you can just call upon to help out your self image. Although, you can better your situation through working out, taking care of your priorities, getting over your fear of talking to women etc. Once confidence is built up to a point, people will notice a change in the way you carry yourself. :up:
 

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There's no such thing as too confident.

New levels of confidence just open up your horizons to things you never thought possible.

It's a belief in yourself and your abilities and when you have it, it's great. You can't tell yourself to 'have more' or 'have less' of it.

When I have confidence, I can only fake not having it. When I lack it, I can only fake having it. Neither fake is convincing.

The other day I introduced myself to this cute little asian girl at a restaurant I was at because I saw her looking at me a few times. I would've _never_ done that before, but for whatever reason, I just had the inner strength to do it without hesitation.
 
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