Well I never had this problem before. My new girlfriend seemed ideal except she's relatively small and she hasn't been with too many men. (It) hurts her. Most of the time we have to stop. Is the relationship over? Or, to put it bluntly, can she be broken in?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Too big?
- Thread starter bigneil
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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I was with this chick who was kinda loose and she was like "my last boyfriend was so big that for a while all he did was stick it in and let it sit there. Eventually we could have sex"
penkitten
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dude, calm down. it can take a good hundred times for your bodies to figure each other out.
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More than likely it is muscle tensions/spams. The fact that she is not very experienced would also point to this.
Do a search for vaginismis (I have no idea of the proper spelling.)
Do a search for vaginismis (I have no idea of the proper spelling.)
ValleyDJing
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LMAO! :crackup:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Straight from a hor's mouth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!penkitten said:
Delta
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it might not work. it's happened before.
but... don't give up too soon. after all, as big as you may be, you got nothing on a baby's head forcing its way out.
it can accommodate quite a bit....
delta
but... don't give up too soon. after all, as big as you may be, you got nothing on a baby's head forcing its way out.
it can accommodate quite a bit....
delta
Thanks for the advice. I do think it's muscular because the last time she stayed over, I gave her a massage (before and after) and she said the massage hurt too. The slightest touch seems to hurt her. She's 27, was a virgin until 21 (despite being about an 8.5), and probably hasn't done many stretching exercises.
But now I'm jealous of all the small guys who are hitting on her at work....
But now I'm jealous of all the small guys who are hitting on her at work....
I feel your pain mate, it can be slow going but use a good splat of lube and take it slow and she'll relax to accomodate you. The important bit is to take it slow so you don't hurt her. In the mean time just make her *** 50 times a session by using your fingers or your tongue. Like my dad always said "Foreplay is not just the appetiser, but the main course and the dessert, sex is just the after dinner mint to finish the night off"
:crackup: That made my laugh out loud...very loud...a loud gaffaw evenValleyDJing said:
I tried to go slow, but she said "can you go faster?". Then when I went faster I go the Ow-uh-oh.
She said a guy should only move his pelvic muscles, not the rest of his body and not her. She wants Elvis on meth. Is that true about only moving your pelvis?
She said a guy should only move his pelvic muscles, not the rest of his body and not her. She wants Elvis on meth. Is that true about only moving your pelvis?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ok, I can suggest a few things to try here. If the reason she wants you to go faster is because she isn't getting enough pleasure with you going slow, then use your hand to stimulate her **** as you are inside of her. Then you can keep going at a less rapid pace and she will be enjoying the experience until she relaxes enough for you to go at it harder.bigneil said:
Another thing I like to do is grip my shaft so that I only go half way in, I can use my thumb on her **** and angle myself so that I can hit different angles (like the G or apply pressure to one side of the vaginal wall then the other, then the G then the floor)
Try some different positions like putting her legs over your shoulders so that she is lying with her arse in the air a bit, you will have a straighter path to work with then.
Or lie behind her with her bent over, sort of like doggy but lying on your sides. you will be able to comfortably reach around then (and play her like the double bassoon).
Also it might be worthwhile letting her ride you, that way she can control the angle, depth and speed.
No it isn't true, tell her to stop watching those black-on-blonde movies, those brothers have double jointed hips
Although I would recommend a bit of hip wiggling to hit some different spots, driving a girl like a piston isn't very pleasurable. Not that any of that is helpful to you in your particular problem.and finally, now I can't stress this enough...USE LUBE...LOTS OF IT...fill her with half the bottle if you have to and use a gel, not the liquid stuff.
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you dirty hopenkitten said: