Well I never had this problem before. My new girlfriend seemed ideal except she's relatively small and she hasn't been with too many men. (It) hurts her. Most of the time we have to stop. Is the relationship over? Or, to put it bluntly, can she be broken in?
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Too big?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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I was with this chick who was kinda loose and she was like "my last boyfriend was so big that for a while all he did was stick it in and let it sit there. Eventually we could have sex"
penkitten
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dude, calm down. it can take a good hundred times for your bodies to figure each other out.
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More than likely it is muscle tensions/spams. The fact that she is not very experienced would also point to this.
Do a search for vaginismis (I have no idea of the proper spelling.)
Do a search for vaginismis (I have no idea of the proper spelling.)
ValleyDJing
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LMAO! :crackup:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Straight from a hor's mouth!!!!!!!!!!!!!!penkitten said:
Delta
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it might not work. it's happened before.
but... don't give up too soon. after all, as big as you may be, you got nothing on a baby's head forcing its way out.
it can accommodate quite a bit....
delta
but... don't give up too soon. after all, as big as you may be, you got nothing on a baby's head forcing its way out.
it can accommodate quite a bit....
delta
Thanks for the advice. I do think it's muscular because the last time she stayed over, I gave her a massage (before and after) and she said the massage hurt too. The slightest touch seems to hurt her. She's 27, was a virgin until 21 (despite being about an 8.5), and probably hasn't done many stretching exercises.
But now I'm jealous of all the small guys who are hitting on her at work....
But now I'm jealous of all the small guys who are hitting on her at work....
I feel your pain mate, it can be slow going but use a good splat of lube and take it slow and she'll relax to accomodate you. The important bit is to take it slow so you don't hurt her. In the mean time just make her *** 50 times a session by using your fingers or your tongue. Like my dad always said "Foreplay is not just the appetiser, but the main course and the dessert, sex is just the after dinner mint to finish the night off"
:crackup: That made my laugh out loud...very loud...a loud gaffaw evenValleyDJing said:
I tried to go slow, but she said "can you go faster?". Then when I went faster I go the Ow-uh-oh.
She said a guy should only move his pelvic muscles, not the rest of his body and not her. She wants Elvis on meth. Is that true about only moving your pelvis?
She said a guy should only move his pelvic muscles, not the rest of his body and not her. She wants Elvis on meth. Is that true about only moving your pelvis?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ok, I can suggest a few things to try here. If the reason she wants you to go faster is because she isn't getting enough pleasure with you going slow, then use your hand to stimulate her **** as you are inside of her. Then you can keep going at a less rapid pace and she will be enjoying the experience until she relaxes enough for you to go at it harder.bigneil said:
Another thing I like to do is grip my shaft so that I only go half way in, I can use my thumb on her **** and angle myself so that I can hit different angles (like the G or apply pressure to one side of the vaginal wall then the other, then the G then the floor)
Try some different positions like putting her legs over your shoulders so that she is lying with her arse in the air a bit, you will have a straighter path to work with then.
Or lie behind her with her bent over, sort of like doggy but lying on your sides. you will be able to comfortably reach around then (and play her like the double bassoon).
Also it might be worthwhile letting her ride you, that way she can control the angle, depth and speed.
No it isn't true, tell her to stop watching those black-on-blonde movies, those brothers have double jointed hips
Although I would recommend a bit of hip wiggling to hit some different spots, driving a girl like a piston isn't very pleasurable. Not that any of that is helpful to you in your particular problem.and finally, now I can't stress this enough...USE LUBE...LOTS OF IT...fill her with half the bottle if you have to and use a gel, not the liquid stuff.
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you dirty hopenkitten said: