Too ask her or not to ask her, that is the question

[leeman67]

There is a 22 year old girl that works part time at a local convient store near my home. We have really seemed to hit it off. I came in the store one day and she snuck up behind me & scared the ...... out of me. We have very strong eye contact with each other from the time we see each other till we leave.

I have to say I also find her very attractive, but being a mid 30's guy, I feel like I would be robbing the craddle.


She told me just today that she goes on fall break, but will be back next week.


Being a guy who is trying to still work on self confidence. Would this be a wise decision?

 

[Vincent]

You're 15 years older then her. She could almost be your daughter.

Remember that.

 

[Don_Marko]

Hey nothing wrong with that... I'm sure when I'm 37 I'll be banging the hot 20 something year olds! It's completely OK to be attracted to youth and beauty!

WTF is the dilemma here? Uhm you dont ask her you go back to watching porns or maybe boning some fat middle aged mommy, and if you do ask her you have a chance at something beautiful (she is hot right?) If worse comes to worst you can just start shopping elsewhere or just ignore her.

 

[ecvegas]

there is nothing wrong with being attracted to a younger women. Some girls like older men because they represent something more mature and stable in their eyes.

I'd say so far your doing good. No need to worry about confidence...she's already made the first move (snuck up on you). Just play it cool and the vibes you send back to her will be the right ones.

 

[Climax]

my 2c

Originally posted by ecvegas
there is nothing wrong with being attracted to a younger women. Some girls like older men because they represent something more mature and stable in their eyes.

I'd say so far your doing good. No need to worry about confidence...she's already made the first move (snuck up on you). Just play it cool and the vibes you send back to her will be the right ones.

Well said....

and just to add: Next time you see her, get a convo going with her, and before u part ways, take her number down. Then text her the next day or 2 days later asking how things are with her etc. Then the next time u see her, arrange to meet with her for lunch or something to get to know one another better, and then after that you should know what to do and/or if things with this girl will work out or not.


Laterz...

 

[biker_gixxer]

Go for it. Make sure to take lots of pictures and feel free to send them to me. haha

 

[Sesar]

I think someon here said something Like

U should not be thinking what the gurl is thinking or what her situations is, etc.. But rather if u want her or not...

-SeSaR

 

[Freeman]

Originally posted by Sesar
I think someon here said something Like

U should not be thinking what the gurl is thinking or what her situations is, etc.. But rather if u want her or not...

-SeSaR

Well said-when you're talking to a chick dont have the mindset that she is doing you a favor-she is not-you are doing her the favor-what can she do for you-if the girl doesnt have what you want then leave her alone-dont think twice about it-leave her alone...