"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Too aggressive?

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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GuanYu

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Sounds like you fvcked up because you weren't enough of a challenge. If you felt you weren't getting the kind of vibes you wanted from her early on, instead of asking her if she wanted to see you "mack other girls" you should have just went on ahead and did it.

Also, putting your hard d!ck against her without first kissing, hugging, etc first is a big nono IMO. You probably made her feel like a wh0re by allowing your tipsyness to shine through.

Also, you're correct in saying you messed up by apologizing and soon after telling her how pretty she is, blah blah. That's completely AFC behavior to the 5th power! On top of that you called her back again after she pretty much dissed you saying you hit on her too much and telling you "No" for a date by implying that she's tired.

Only way to salvage something like this is to just completely ignore her. If she likes you the least bit or is desperate enough she might hit you up, but don't be surprised if she doesn't. If you keep initiating contact with her from now on she'll just think you're a chump without any other prospects.

Also, did you pay for her drinks? If you did that's also a nono especially when she invites you out.
 
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Hooligan Harry

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walk away dude. All due respect, but I think you came across as a prat. Who grinds a hard on into a women on the dance floor? Maybe if you ****ed her before I could say fine. But on a first date? Then you ask her if she would prefer it if you "mac other girls?"

Holy ****. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. No wonder she wont return your calls. You acted like a frikken date rapist. She does not trust you and does not feel safe around you. Bottom line is that you really creeped this chick out.

This is what happens when people read too much seduction material.

"So, after a bit of kino I decided to rub my hard knob against her on the dance floor. You know, because at stage 3.7.6 B its time to show sexual interest"
 
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Delete post. Thanks for the advice.. Your right I read too much seduction material..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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