She didn't know where she wanted to go??
you should be the one deciding this, if she doesn't like your first date idea, try another one, if she doesn't like that then tell her you'll talk to her later and maybe try again in 3 days.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Tonight was the date, and she aint answer her phone, she tried me man.
- Thread starter Blackstar
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you should be the one deciding this, if she doesn't like your first date idea, try another one, if she doesn't like that then tell her you'll talk to her later and maybe try again in 3 days.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
lol this is actually kinda funny now that i look back, i mean what sense does it make for her to make a date and then act like this? hehe, by the way i didnt use 2 different phone numbers, i used the same one , but called twice.
Its ok though im definetly not calling her or texting her again until she does so, then ill see what she comes up with, although i wont mention anything about how fuked up it is to her, ill act as if nothing happened, **** she already knows, i aint gotta say a word about this, lol she probably expects me to be mad...nah not me.
but that leads me into thinking...Why would she do something like this for? really, why?
Its ok though im definetly not calling her or texting her again until she does so, then ill see what she comes up with, although i wont mention anything about how fuked up it is to her, ill act as if nothing happened, **** she already knows, i aint gotta say a word about this, lol she probably expects me to be mad...nah not me.
but that leads me into thinking...Why would she do something like this for? really, why?
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Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
Ok Blackstar take a deep breath. RELAX. It will all be ok. You are not going to die.
Stop ringing her and stop messaging her. You are right. It makes you look desperate and weak. So stop it.
Let me break it down...... HAMMER TIME !!! *starts doing MC HAMMER DANCE*
we talked about going out tonight last week
she had plenty of notice
today she called me in the moorining while i was at work, reminding me of it
all is well in your kingdom..... or is it ?
so she told me to call her when i get off work
start of flake here..... can you see what she just did ?
(oh yeah she said that she might be tired later on tonight
HOLD THE PHONE !!!
YOU JUST GOT A $HIT TEST !
she told you TOLD YO A$$ that she is going to flake
ok this is the part in the movie where you come across as a DJ
AND YOU DIDN'T
So 30 minutes ago i sent her a text, needless to say that she still hasnt answer to it, im not gonna text her again or call her cause i dont wanna seem desperate, but im pissed off man, im really pissed off
yeah you got a right to be pissed off. BUT. she TOLD YOU she was gunna flake and you .... yes my fellow DJ ... YOU SAID NOTHING
What should i do here? i was thinking in not calling her or texting her until she does, but if she does what do i tell her?
Relax and take it easy. you have given her too much power and you look like a chump. but LEARN from it. leave it and see what she does.
If she rings you with a " sorry i fell asleep " or " sorry my grandma died " just say well i guess this means you have to make it up to me. Or something along those lines. And if she doesn't bend over backwards then you know she is a waste of time and NEXT her.
You are desperate because you have all your eggs in one basket. Get a few more women turning over in your weekly program and KILL THIS DESPERATION.
and remember this :
Quote: maddman75
“ I am the prize. I like what I see so far, so I'll give her an opportunity to show me that she's worth my time and effort. If she rejects me, she's a fool. I'll just go find the next lucky chick and let her have what this chick is throwing away. “
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“ Yeah i saw this today and it remided me of you" --- then show her a doll of a sumo wrestler! “
Stop ringing her and stop messaging her. You are right. It makes you look desperate and weak. So stop it.
Let me break it down...... HAMMER TIME !!! *starts doing MC HAMMER DANCE*
we talked about going out tonight last week
she had plenty of notice
today she called me in the moorining while i was at work, reminding me of it
all is well in your kingdom..... or is it ?
so she told me to call her when i get off work
start of flake here..... can you see what she just did ?
(oh yeah she said that she might be tired later on tonight
HOLD THE PHONE !!!
YOU JUST GOT A $HIT TEST !
she told you TOLD YO A$$ that she is going to flake
ok this is the part in the movie where you come across as a DJ
AND YOU DIDN'T
So 30 minutes ago i sent her a text, needless to say that she still hasnt answer to it, im not gonna text her again or call her cause i dont wanna seem desperate, but im pissed off man, im really pissed off
yeah you got a right to be pissed off. BUT. she TOLD YOU she was gunna flake and you .... yes my fellow DJ ... YOU SAID NOTHING
What should i do here? i was thinking in not calling her or texting her until she does, but if she does what do i tell her?
Relax and take it easy. you have given her too much power and you look like a chump. but LEARN from it. leave it and see what she does.
If she rings you with a " sorry i fell asleep " or " sorry my grandma died " just say well i guess this means you have to make it up to me. Or something along those lines. And if she doesn't bend over backwards then you know she is a waste of time and NEXT her.
You are desperate because you have all your eggs in one basket. Get a few more women turning over in your weekly program and KILL THIS DESPERATION.
and remember this :
Quote: maddman75
“ I am the prize. I like what I see so far, so I'll give her an opportunity to show me that she's worth my time and effort. If she rejects me, she's a fool. I'll just go find the next lucky chick and let her have what this chick is throwing away. “
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“ Yeah i saw this today and it remided me of you" --- then show her a doll of a sumo wrestler! “
white cloud 8
Senior Don Juan
I'm going to beat this into my head until it stays there
."Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
belividere
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out of curiousity what has lead you up to tonight? Basically what are the logistics of your relationship before this.
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go shoot yourself
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
Quote - Skullcrusher
go shoot yourself
you ok ? i have noticed you offer this type of advice to people alot.
go shoot yourself
you ok ? i have noticed you offer this type of advice to people alot.