"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Toned face - swimmer

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Many times the question has been asked, tips on getting a strong jawline, toned/tight face, but nothing concrete so far.

Recently, I've been hanging out with a group of swimmers and I notice 80% of them have a very nice facial build. Do you think that's just a coincidence, or is swimming something we should look into?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Doggystyle

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its just generally people that exercise have a toned face, low body fat, higher testosterone
 

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Swimmers just tend to be cut and lean. Therefore there's less of that pudgy fat on their face so you can see their facial structure more clearly.
 

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I don't think testosterone plays a big role in defining your facial structure because many bodybuilders i know don't have a nice face.

Exercise certainly plays a part in toning which is what i'm trying to discuss. In previous threads, it was concluded that exercising will lower your bf and give you a more lean face, but you can't selectively tone down your facial fats.

Many athletes I see still have a rather pudgy face, most swimmers on the other hand do not. Coincidence?
 

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Upper said:
Many athletes I see still have a rather pudgy face, most swimmers on the other hand do not. Coincidence?

Yes.


There is no link between swimming and masculine jawline. What are you supposing causes it? Chlorine?

Testosterone and bodyfat percentage alone will determine the prominence of your jaw line.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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