"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tomorrow your exes are going to wish you merry Christmas, dont you bite

Zarky

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Whoops, yesterday I sent Happy Holidays texts/emails to all the exes I would still be willing to bang! Got a couple responses but no leads. LOL

Otherwise, I don't understand why folks don't stay friends with their exes. I always try to. Unless they strangled your cat or something heinous, why wouldn't you? I mean, you spend all that time getting to know someone and then when you break up suddenly you can never speak again? Seems kind of childish to me. We're all human.

I recently saw an ex I dated back in '08 on an internet site. Chatted her up, we're going out for coffee next week. It'll be nice to hear about what she's doing.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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JohnChops

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im in the same boat at Sosuave666 lol none of my ex s would even think about contacting me. Usually i make it clear that its done, bridge burning, becuase ex s should be ex s. Anyway, none contacted me as usual
 

Fatal Jay

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What's up with my rep points so suave

Fatal doesn't get any love, show me love and I will always show y'all love back

My exes always hit me up, cause I never really ended things bad with them, even if they piss me off I still don't end things badly

it's so funny when I see all these numbers not saved in my phone wishing me merry christmas lol
 
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