Tomorrow is the day...

[Niq Nova The Mighty]

I have just finished reading the 95 page long document, Weapons of Mass Seduction. (http://sucs.org/~nicholas/djb/wms.pdf)

I believe I have everything I need to close the deal with the most attractive girl I've ever laid eyes on, and tomorrow, I will do so.

For those of you who read my Psychology of Attraction post, you know that I have a psychology project about attraction in the works. I will use this to my advantage to break the ice. It'll go something like this..

Me: "Excuse me, hi, my name is NiQ"
Her: "hello, I'm HB10"
Me: "HB10, I'm doing a survey for my psychology project, and I need the opinion of an attractive girl.. You're a senior right?"(in the school we attend, I don't dig gramma's)
Her: "Yes I am, ask away.."
Me: "Ok, first off, what are your plans after high school?"
Her: "Blah blah blah"
Me: "Oh really? That's interesting, because I'm fond of the blah blah blah"
Her: Really? Cool!"

I ask a few more questions, maintaining EC and maybe applying some kino where it is needed. I let the conversation go on for a couple minutes, and tell her I have to be going, and close for the number.

Though I am pretty nervous because I know I won't let myself back out, I'm still open for suggestions.. anyone care to help me out?

 

[Niq Nova The Mighty]

Man, no advice from anyone? Where have all the DJ's gone? This board used to inject me with confidence.. but not anymore.. someone show me that the great DJ's haven't all died!

 

[Duke]

I'm not so sure about using your psychology project as an IN to get her number...

 

[Niq Nova The Mighty]

Well lucky me then, she wasn't there today. What would you suggest? Just a simple "excuse me, hi, my name is NiQ"?

 

[Duke]

If you DO actually need her answer for your Psych project, that's one thing. But if you are using the Psych project as an excuse to talk to her... then it's up to you, but if she sees through it and realizes that you are just trying to do a PU, then it will make you look weak.

What I usually do is make a comment about something EXTERNAL that we can both relate to. For example, I might go over to a girl in the food court of the mall and be like...

me: Hey, HB, what are you eating?
her: blah blah
me: Ah, so is blah blah any good?
her: Yeah!
me: I am so hungry that I'm about to eat my fist! This WILL fill me up if I get it, right? It's not just some girly dish eh?
her: Oh yeah, it will fill you up!
me: Ok, tell you what. You look like a trustworthy person, so I'm gonna take your word for it and get some blah blah for lunch.
her: Haha, thanks, ok!
me: *starts to leave*
me: *turns back*
me: Oh yeah! I almost forgot! What's your name?
her: HB
me: You seem different than most people I talk to, HB *smile*. How can I contact you in the future?
her: 867-5309
me: Cool, bon appetite! *leave*

Granted, I used the food as an IN, but that seems spontaneous, whereas your "experiment" can come off as canned. Just some suggestions, but if you honestly believe that it will work, then go with what's in your heart and disregard what I say.

 

[Niq Nova The Mighty]

Awesome, thanks Now, a female friend of mine told me I shouldn't mention anything about her looks, because obviously HB 9's and 10's know they look great. What I was planning on mentioning was how blonde her hair was (it looks like it radiates) which woulda went like..

Me: Hi, my name is NiQ
Her: Hi, I'm HB10
Me: I was just wondering, do you highlight your hair is that your natural hair color?
Her:It's natural/I highlight it
Me:Wow really?/Oh? What product do you use?

*small talk followed by close*

I'm guessing that's not too good, but I know absolutely nothing about this girl.. other than she's a senior, which I could make a convo out of.. I'm sure if I just kick some game I'll be in, but there's still a couple uncertainties..

 

[Duke]

Hey, whaddaya know? A female friend is RIGHT for once.

I forgot to mention that. If she's a HB8 or above, don't directly compliment her looks... that puts you in the category of every other chump that has hit on her.

I'd use a light Neg if I were you.

you: Hey, your hair caught my eye. Is it natural? (neg)
her: Why yes it is!
you: Ah, awesome! I'm tired of fake barbie dolls walking around trying to get my attention all the time. But you seem different. Hey listen, I gotta go, but I'd like to get to know you better. How can i contact you?

On the other hand...
her: No, I got it highlighted
you: Oh, well I still like it. Hey listen, I gotta go, but I'd like to get to know you better. How can i contact you?

Good luck, Niq! Remember that what you say matters less than you delivery, though. So be the suave, confident, relaxed dude that you are. Focus on the POSITIVE outcome. Visualize everything with as many details as possible... sights, sounds, smells, and run the PU through your head a few times. See yourself succeeding and you will!

-Duke

 

[4afe]

Dont plan anything out.... just go with the flow.

 

[khanboy]

First, no matter how much you plan, it is not going to turn out that way. This is why I don't have such plans, but most guys do because they need structure. There is a difference between having a structure and having a plan as to what each of you will say. You can not predict her responses, she does not know your plan, so it will not go according to your plan.

Second, I'm not a big fan of your one chick approach, ever heard the expression "don't put all your eggs in one basket?"


Something to ponder,
khanboy

 

[MindOverMatter]

why do people make elaborate pick up scenarios.

K.I.S.S.