I will go to the local shopping mall and start to work on my shyness. I will ask random people "how would they feel if the muslim religion were imposed on them" and it is for a school project. I hope this is a good idea. Any tips would be appreciated.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Anything that gets you off your arse and out talking to people face to face will help your shyness, If you could tweak your question to something more female friendly, something that will get them chatting (think shoes, perfume) It would do your chance of a bite no harm, I doubt islam will get them foaming at the hips!
If religion is a prerequisite of your project, well..... you can only piss with the **** you've got
Good luck young padawan
If religion is a prerequisite of your project, well..... you can only piss with the **** you've got
Good luck young padawan
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Just walk up to them and ask for something simple. Then continue on the conversation. You should talk to people in your age range at school though, the mall is kind of "ehh" to me.
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Don't use your age as an excuse, you need to man up as early as you can do you don't see your golden years fly by and before you know it, looky at me = 39 hahaha 
With respect,
Exodus
With respect,
Exodus
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.