"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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fonsi141

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I will go to the local shopping mall and start to work on my shyness. I will ask random people "how would they feel if the muslim religion were imposed on them" and it is for a school project. I hope this is a good idea. Any tips would be appreciated.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mayfair

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Anything that gets you off your arse and out talking to people face to face will help your shyness, If you could tweak your question to something more female friendly, something that will get them chatting (think shoes, perfume) It would do your chance of a bite no harm, I doubt islam will get them foaming at the hips!

If religion is a prerequisite of your project, well..... you can only piss with the **** you've got

Good luck young padawan
 

fonsi141

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im 15 years old so i'm not trying to pick up women or anything like that at the moment haha.. tommorow i hust want to work on my shyness
 

Fly By Night

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Just walk up to them and ask for something simple. Then continue on the conversation. You should talk to people in your age range at school though, the mall is kind of "ehh" to me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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