"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tom Leykis radio show

Scought

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Have any of you ever listened to the Tom Leykis radio show, between 3-7 pm, PST.

He talks about avoiding relationships at such a young age, because there is a lot of experiences, fun, and other things to do.
I agree with him. Relationships at a young age are a bad idea. Instead, date around, have fun, talk to many girls, and avoid spending money on girls.

Its great. Anyone here listen to the show, he is a little controversial, but is a real mans man.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I have a copy in mp3 from his show called

"Dating - 101"

Lists the rules.. very cool.

If someone has webspace, I wouldn't mind sending it to them to share.
 

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Ever see the dude?

We dont get his show here, but I saw a pic of him when he got assaulted by some guy he insulted on his show.
 

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Dating 101

Originally posted by The TallOne
If someone has webspace, I wouldn't mind sending it to them to share.
I'd be very intrested. I also have quite a lot of stuff from Jeffries to Double Your dating... or something...
 

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Originally posted by OldNumb3r7
Ever see the dude?

We dont get his show here, but I saw a pic of him when he got assaulted by some guy he insulted on his show.
Isn't it funny how its the goofy ones talking big on the radio and you don't even know it till they get their bell rung.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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