Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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http://www.971freefm.com/pages/1250.php

For anyone interested go to that site, scroll down and subscribe to the free Tom Leykis podcasts.

You get a ton of his old shows as well as all of the new ones and it is updated regularly.

It rules.

This guy preaches the same message we do here.

Often we complain about the media brainwashing us with crap like Dr. Phil and Oprah and just feminist garbage in general but you'll get none of that with Tom and all of the good stuff you learn here and more all in an extremely entertaining fashion.

Another benefit of listening to Leykis is he's yet another resource at your disposal to enforce your growing DJ mindset.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Thanks KontrollerX... I have listened to his podcasts and they were very interesting. He preaches what we are all about.
 

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Nice catch Colonel KontrollerX!

I've been listening to his radio show for years!

I called in once about 4 or 5 years ago and told him what a great service he provides to us men. Then I spoke those timeless words:

Blow me up Tom!

Dude did it too!
 

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I just started listening to him again lately. He has some valid points, but I wouldn't say he's 100 percent with this program. For instance, he's totally against getting married or having any sort of ltr, which surely not everybody here agrees with. To me, while he's basically right, he seems to be a bit too much "the jerk." He's right about responsibility though, and taking care of business.
 

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1. That he does lookyoung.

2. Damn Karma you are one priviledged and lucky SOB. Props getting to talk to the professor himself bro. If I ever called up and got through I'd ask him to take me out pimp style lmao.

3. Good point PrinceBeavis and fortunately from all of my listening to his show that seems to be the only thing he's not with us about. DJ's are not opposed to marriage in general if that is something a brother really wants and he has filtered the woman well to ensure as few red flags as possible before going down this road.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tom never teaches you the best ways about reclaiming your "manhood".

He talks about achieving your dreams. Which is good. He takes a very holistic approach to getting with women.

The only thing he suggest is not getting married till you're past 25 and to basically treat women like crap.

I've never heard him support relationships or give good advice on what it truly means to be a "man".

I use to listen to him religiously, but not anymore. He spits the same stuffs quite often.

Good stuff, but not enough. I still like him though-to an extent.
 
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