"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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http://www.971freefm.com/pages/1250.php

For anyone interested go to that site, scroll down and subscribe to the free Tom Leykis podcasts.

You get a ton of his old shows as well as all of the new ones and it is updated regularly.

It rules.

This guy preaches the same message we do here.

Often we complain about the media brainwashing us with crap like Dr. Phil and Oprah and just feminist garbage in general but you'll get none of that with Tom and all of the good stuff you learn here and more all in an extremely entertaining fashion.

Another benefit of listening to Leykis is he's yet another resource at your disposal to enforce your growing DJ mindset.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thanks KontrollerX... I have listened to his podcasts and they were very interesting. He preaches what we are all about.
 

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Nice catch Colonel KontrollerX!

I've been listening to his radio show for years!

I called in once about 4 or 5 years ago and told him what a great service he provides to us men. Then I spoke those timeless words:

Blow me up Tom!

Dude did it too!
 

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I just started listening to him again lately. He has some valid points, but I wouldn't say he's 100 percent with this program. For instance, he's totally against getting married or having any sort of ltr, which surely not everybody here agrees with. To me, while he's basically right, he seems to be a bit too much "the jerk." He's right about responsibility though, and taking care of business.
 

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1. That he does lookyoung.

2. Damn Karma you are one priviledged and lucky SOB. Props getting to talk to the professor himself bro. If I ever called up and got through I'd ask him to take me out pimp style lmao.

3. Good point PrinceBeavis and fortunately from all of my listening to his show that seems to be the only thing he's not with us about. DJ's are not opposed to marriage in general if that is something a brother really wants and he has filtered the woman well to ensure as few red flags as possible before going down this road.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tom never teaches you the best ways about reclaiming your "manhood".

He talks about achieving your dreams. Which is good. He takes a very holistic approach to getting with women.

The only thing he suggest is not getting married till you're past 25 and to basically treat women like crap.

I've never heard him support relationships or give good advice on what it truly means to be a "man".

I use to listen to him religiously, but not anymore. He spits the same stuffs quite often.

Good stuff, but not enough. I still like him though-to an extent.
 
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