tom leykis method ignoring women

[Thechamp]

Any one listen to Tom leykis famous dj he advice is go to a bar completely ignore women , talk to the bar tender watch sports but don't look at women and they will approach you , any one tried his method ?

 

[ERB]

Yes. Sat right next to a female, no HB rating what so ever. Sat next to her for 2 hours. Next to no talking. She leaves bar. 10 minuites later she call bar and has bartender give me her number. Never called because of her HB rating being so low.

 

[Thechamp]

Yes. Sat right next to a female, no HB rating what so ever. Sat next to her for 2 hours. Next to no talking. She leaves bar. 10 minuites later she call bar and has bartender give me her number. Never called because of her HB rating being so low.

Do t take the piss

 

[PeasantPlayer]

I had good experiences with this method

 

[hockeyfreak79]

Yeah I would occasionally listen to Tom when he was on the radio, years ago. Flash Friday's were always my favorite.

I have a favorite bar/grill I occasionally hit for a night cap after a hockey game. I do just that relax catch up on sport center or what ever game is on. Shoot the **** with the bartenders or whatever. I've been going there for about 3yrs or so and have been picked up 1x.

She was in good shape 7 well a 6(-1 SM). Before I could even get a sip of my beer she was sitting next to me. It's rare for me but when it happens they are usually really hungry looking for attention. Bar sloots come & go nothing really there to get too excited about.

 

[dude99]

Any one listen to Tom leykis famous dj he advice is go to a bar completely ignore women , talk to the bar tender watch sports but don't look at women and they will approach you , any one tried his method ?

This method works when every guy in the bar is ignoring the women. It forces them out of their usual "i pick and choose," mentality because there is nothing to pick from.

Unfortunately most of the time there are enough weak beta guys there fawning over them making it possible for the average girl to drink for free every night.

 

[Julian]

it works if you are solo, confident and aesthetic. its best if you have a business type look or renegade look.

I used to live in a condo above a popular night lounge. classy type of place with dancefloor loud music etc. Cool spot. Anyway I would go down solo, post up at the bar order a drink an just people watch, BS with whoever was near me...Now the key is STAYING at the bar...women will naturally congregate and gather around you. I had a girl up in my condo within 20 minutes. She was visiting for her friends wedding.

 

[Vivacity]

They may approach you, but they will be HB4s or under, or strippers or prostitutes.

 

[El Payaso]

The less attention a man gives a woman, the more she craves it.

 

[raider87]

Yeah worked for me in the past before I even knew about game. I would go to cafe's and sports bars solo, sit in a corner or off to the side somewhere by myself. Even at the gym its worked for me. Like el payaso says they crave attention and enjoy the challenge.

 

[Thechamp]

Yeah worked for me in the past before I even knew about game. I would go to cafe's and sports bars solo, sit in a corner or off to the side somewhere by myself. Even at the gym its worked for me. Like el payaso says they crave attention and enjoy the challenge.

So what happend at the gym did they approach you ?

 

[nismo-4]

The less attention a man gives a woman, the more she craves it.

Yeah, but what if you're not someone she wants attention from? You can't tell every poster on this thread to go to a bar, ignore every woman there, and we'll all be banging a HB 7+ an hour later.

 

[l__i__l]

Don't hold your breath, they do not approach often. Unless your extremely aesthetic self, drives their interest level through the roof.
This method builds the interest, which they will signal to you.
You will still need to be man enough to approach.

 

[Mike32ct]

Yeah, but what if you're not someone she wants attention from? You can't tell every poster on this thread to go to a bar, ignore every woman there, and we'll all be banging a HB 7+ an hour later.

Yep. If you're her type, she wants attention. If you're not her type, she WANTS you to ignore her and mind your own business.

I fully support going out alone, enjoying your drink, watching the tv, chatting with the bartenders, etc., and I think that "ignore game" (to the extent it even exists) is cool. But definitely be aware of its limitations because it depends heavily on your looks (or at least your appearance of having $$ and how well you tip).

 

[Bingo-Player]

I tend to initially create interest through eye contact then if its reciprocated from her I will withdraw it completely

 

[El Payaso]

If you're not necessarily her type , it works even more if you ignore her and give her zero attention. She expects you to be an orbiter and a source of attention. Once you approach her, you validate her expectations and need for attention. She becomes satisfied and you probably won't get past that stage.

 

[SmooveMooves]

Only works if you above average in looks. Like a 8. I wouldn't recommend this method to the average guy. You'll end up having many lonely nights.