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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Tom Cruise's view on Psychology
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Why do people keep bringing this up, Let me ask you why do you bring this up again? It's been 3 years...get over it fvck! It's almost as bad as talking about a girl from a year ago saying "What could have been."
Get over it this is Cruise's opinion stop beating a dead horse.
Get over it this is Cruise's opinion stop beating a dead horse.
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If you don´t like it, simply ignore it, period! 
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Man, It´s just to discuss. The year means nothing!
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Tom Cruise has made some good points but only because he was looking for faults due to his own scientology beliefs whom he tries to sell to the masses as an alternative solution, as opposed to having a more balanced view of the positives and negatives of psychology and the usage of drugs.
Paradox....
NO I dont have a problem with anyones beliefs OR opinion I never stated that I had a problem with the OP'S opinion on Cruise or what he said since in fact the OP never really made his opinion clear in any of his posts except the fact that he called him bossy.
I can say that I like Cruise as an actor, he is in really good movie's and nothing can take that away from him. Yes people can talk trash and make fun of him about his views on life but so what...I doubt he really gives a sh1t what the majority of people think about him since he probably has enough money to live off of for the rest of his life, plus the fact that his wife has become an even BIGGER STAR since she married Cruise. You can say whatever you want about Katie but she was nothing until everyone started hearing her with Cruise, so now she can make a movie and get good money since she is know and thus have more money in the family and practically set for life.
Yes I have heard some crazy stuff about Cruise but so what I dont have any right to judge the guy except for his portrayal in his movies. Plus the fact that he probably get's lot's of pressure from the Scientology community to bring in my big names doesnt help his image either. Cruise is a big name and I dont agree with attacking someone on national tv but it was his choice and he DID apologize afterwards but still this is a 3 yr old discussion I think it's been talked about enough.
NO I dont have a problem with anyones beliefs OR opinion I never stated that I had a problem with the OP'S opinion on Cruise or what he said since in fact the OP never really made his opinion clear in any of his posts except the fact that he called him bossy.
I can say that I like Cruise as an actor, he is in really good movie's and nothing can take that away from him. Yes people can talk trash and make fun of him about his views on life but so what...I doubt he really gives a sh1t what the majority of people think about him since he probably has enough money to live off of for the rest of his life, plus the fact that his wife has become an even BIGGER STAR since she married Cruise. You can say whatever you want about Katie but she was nothing until everyone started hearing her with Cruise, so now she can make a movie and get good money since she is know and thus have more money in the family and practically set for life.
Yes I have heard some crazy stuff about Cruise but so what I dont have any right to judge the guy except for his portrayal in his movies. Plus the fact that he probably get's lot's of pressure from the Scientology community to bring in my big names doesnt help his image either. Cruise is a big name and I dont agree with attacking someone on national tv but it was his choice and he DID apologize afterwards but still this is a 3 yr old discussion I think it's been talked about enough.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Ok man, for you it´s enough. I didn´t even know when this program took place. The idea was to discuss about psychology.
I don´t get why the "attacks". If it bothers you, ignore it.
I don´t get why the "attacks". If it bothers you, ignore it.
There's the neverending clinical bias that has planted itself in the public's mind. The media seeking definite answers to research and mere proposals (which keep scientists going), psych jargon that typical laypeople tend to disregard and build their own conclusions on, the fact that these laypeople still insist that psychological research is harmful for participants when informed consent is garnered (w/the exception of some experiments lacking in internal validity) and that research proposals are sent to IRB's if in question and even if not. Read the Keith Stanovich book, very concise and it's 12 chapters.
While I am not commenting on the topic itself, I think it was pretty crappy that Cruise kept saying that he was right because he is more informed on the topic. Instead of saying you're right, why not prove it if you're so smart?!
The last part of it was just a blatant attack on the reporter and not an intelligent conversation about the topic.
The last part of it was just a blatant attack on the reporter and not an intelligent conversation about the topic.