Reyaj
Master Don Juan
Not that I am particularly a fan of this wacko but I don't know if I've ever seen alpha more depicted anywhere than this scene.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That's a lone wolf style alpha.Not that I am particularly a fan of this wacko but I don't know if I've ever seen alpha more depicted anywhere than this scene.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Very interesting BB... I guess that makes sense... Thats the thing about the movies versus real life I always found to be different. In the movies if there's one guy fighting a group they usually fight someone one at a time.. then when he beats the one guy, another guy moves in and so forth... But I always figured in real life a group of people would all be attacking you at the same time. I guess if we were ever in that unfortunate scenario best bet is to run to the front of the line and throw either a groin kick or a punch to the nose?My compliments to the fight choreographer for including all those crotch shots. Fighting multiple attackers is actually possible, but the real life way to do it involves mostly running, so you don't look nearly as cool as in the movies. Basically, you run to the end of the line of guys facing you so all of them are behind one guy, then you have about a second and a half to fight him one on one before everyone moves and forms the line in front of you again. I've done it in training as a conditioning drill. The energy required is similar to sprinting. Most people can't last more than a minute or so.
Yes lol I also like the line "what I mean is the cheapest woman tends to be the one you pay for"I'm not a hooker!
Oh, then I really can't afford you.
Brilliant line. I remember laughing at that in the theatre.
Knowing that you are scripted to kick five guys' @ss with barely any effort doesn't hurt eitherThe reason I like this scene is not so much him kicking everyone' ass but I think his whole demeanor throughout the scene just reeks of authentic confidence. He doesn't try to boast or cluck his feathers.. he knows what he is capable of and almost yawns at the routine of it.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
if i'm not mistaken samurais used to it when they was in a numeric disavantage, pretty much you run, since they will not all run at the same speed you stop finish one then run again, and yeah its really tiresome, other ways to do it, is run to a narrow corridor, or stay behind a door way in such a way only one will pass , worse case, in a room corner, the idea is use they number against then. in 300 they also said such when the soldiers used the mountain pass to reduce the persian army number on then.Very interesting BB... I guess that makes sense... Thats the thing about the movies versus real life I always found to be different. In the movies if there's one guy fighting a group they usually fight someone one at a time.. then when he beats the one guy, another guy moves in and so forth... But I always figured in real life a group of people would all be attacking you at the same time. I guess if we were ever in that unfortunate scenario best bet is to run to the front of the line and throw either a groin kick or a punch to the nose?
Yes lol I also like the line "what I mean is the cheapest woman tends to be the one you pay for"
The reason I like this scene is not so much him kicking everyone' ass but I think his whole demeanor throughout the scene just reeks of authentic confidence. He doesn't try to boast or cluck his feathers.. he knows what he is capable of and almost yawns at the routine of it.
Some people have eyes in the back of their heads, my co-workers, basketball players who can pass well. Scotsmen are said to have a sixth sense. As you get older you lose most of that though. I'm living proof. My dulling of the my senses (I can accelerate my senses now if I aim to focus and try hard) are brought upon by myself because I "just don't care" and not caring because there's not much left you care to have pleasure in because you've already experienced them. When you get what you want (or what you thought you wanted) your senses become dulled do to carelessness.In a real life fight, he would have been hit in the back of the head by one of the guys following him the movement he stepped out that bar. Never turn your back on someone who wants to fight you.
The scene from Collateral is even more hilarious. Only in the movies are you going to see a white gang robbing a black man at gunpoint...and in LA of all places.
that dulling is more about lack of practice then really you getting old, I normally can sense people behind me, mostly because I can heard they walking or breathing, I had to fight sometimes in a closed circle with several guys trying to hit me, more then once, I learned what to do on this situation, one was run to a corner, or pass a door way to prevent they superior number be a problem to me or run to a corridor to do the same, but when I couldn't break from the circle fast enough I would keep my back against the lights and see they shadows, you see someone trying to hit your back you can see and act.Some people have eyes in the back of their heads, my co-workers, basketball players who can pass well. Scotsmen are said to have a sixth sense. As you get older you lose most of that though. I'm living proof. My dulling of the my senses (I can accelerate my senses now if I aim to focus and try hard) are brought upon by myself because I "just don't care" and not caring because there's not much left you care to have pleasure in because you've already experienced them. When you get what you want (or what you thought you wanted) your senses become dulled do to carelessness.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.