Reyaj
Master Don Juan
Not that I am particularly a fan of this wacko but I don't know if I've ever seen alpha more depicted anywhere than this scene.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
That's a lone wolf style alpha.Not that I am particularly a fan of this wacko but I don't know if I've ever seen alpha more depicted anywhere than this scene.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Very interesting BB... I guess that makes sense... Thats the thing about the movies versus real life I always found to be different. In the movies if there's one guy fighting a group they usually fight someone one at a time.. then when he beats the one guy, another guy moves in and so forth... But I always figured in real life a group of people would all be attacking you at the same time. I guess if we were ever in that unfortunate scenario best bet is to run to the front of the line and throw either a groin kick or a punch to the nose?My compliments to the fight choreographer for including all those crotch shots. Fighting multiple attackers is actually possible, but the real life way to do it involves mostly running, so you don't look nearly as cool as in the movies. Basically, you run to the end of the line of guys facing you so all of them are behind one guy, then you have about a second and a half to fight him one on one before everyone moves and forms the line in front of you again. I've done it in training as a conditioning drill. The energy required is similar to sprinting. Most people can't last more than a minute or so.
Yes lol I also like the line "what I mean is the cheapest woman tends to be the one you pay for"I'm not a hooker!
Oh, then I really can't afford you.
Brilliant line. I remember laughing at that in the theatre.
Knowing that you are scripted to kick five guys' @ss with barely any effort doesn't hurt eitherThe reason I like this scene is not so much him kicking everyone' ass but I think his whole demeanor throughout the scene just reeks of authentic confidence. He doesn't try to boast or cluck his feathers.. he knows what he is capable of and almost yawns at the routine of it.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
if i'm not mistaken samurais used to it when they was in a numeric disavantage, pretty much you run, since they will not all run at the same speed you stop finish one then run again, and yeah its really tiresome, other ways to do it, is run to a narrow corridor, or stay behind a door way in such a way only one will pass , worse case, in a room corner, the idea is use they number against then. in 300 they also said such when the soldiers used the mountain pass to reduce the persian army number on then.Very interesting BB... I guess that makes sense... Thats the thing about the movies versus real life I always found to be different. In the movies if there's one guy fighting a group they usually fight someone one at a time.. then when he beats the one guy, another guy moves in and so forth... But I always figured in real life a group of people would all be attacking you at the same time. I guess if we were ever in that unfortunate scenario best bet is to run to the front of the line and throw either a groin kick or a punch to the nose?
Yes lol I also like the line "what I mean is the cheapest woman tends to be the one you pay for"
The reason I like this scene is not so much him kicking everyone' ass but I think his whole demeanor throughout the scene just reeks of authentic confidence. He doesn't try to boast or cluck his feathers.. he knows what he is capable of and almost yawns at the routine of it.
Some people have eyes in the back of their heads, my co-workers, basketball players who can pass well. Scotsmen are said to have a sixth sense. As you get older you lose most of that though. I'm living proof. My dulling of the my senses (I can accelerate my senses now if I aim to focus and try hard) are brought upon by myself because I "just don't care" and not caring because there's not much left you care to have pleasure in because you've already experienced them. When you get what you want (or what you thought you wanted) your senses become dulled do to carelessness.In a real life fight, he would have been hit in the back of the head by one of the guys following him the movement he stepped out that bar. Never turn your back on someone who wants to fight you.
The scene from Collateral is even more hilarious. Only in the movies are you going to see a white gang robbing a black man at gunpoint...and in LA of all places.
that dulling is more about lack of practice then really you getting old, I normally can sense people behind me, mostly because I can heard they walking or breathing, I had to fight sometimes in a closed circle with several guys trying to hit me, more then once, I learned what to do on this situation, one was run to a corner, or pass a door way to prevent they superior number be a problem to me or run to a corridor to do the same, but when I couldn't break from the circle fast enough I would keep my back against the lights and see they shadows, you see someone trying to hit your back you can see and act.Some people have eyes in the back of their heads, my co-workers, basketball players who can pass well. Scotsmen are said to have a sixth sense. As you get older you lose most of that though. I'm living proof. My dulling of the my senses (I can accelerate my senses now if I aim to focus and try hard) are brought upon by myself because I "just don't care" and not caring because there's not much left you care to have pleasure in because you've already experienced them. When you get what you want (or what you thought you wanted) your senses become dulled do to carelessness.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.