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Tom Brady, Sofia Vergara having ‘summer romance’ in Spain

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He has a lot of choices and ended up with that. There are 20 something Latinas with great butts available.
:D Now we know what you like....

I more of a South Korean guy....I like them slim, trim, and ready for action.
 

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1. Tom Brady, for all his accolades, is still just a man in the dating market. Sometimes it’s “one date, no sex, no second date,” and other times he might casually date a few women before settling down—if he chooses to. Fame doesn’t eliminate the realities of modern dating.

2. When celebrities date each other, there’s often a mutual halo effect—they’re both star-struck. In this case, Sofia might feel flattered that one of the greatest QBs in history is interested in her, while Tom may be drawn to Sofia’s legacy as one of the most iconic Spanish women on TV. Mutual status amplifies attraction. The star struck effect for them cannot be undermined, and it is the same as a normie dating the bartender, CEO, fireman, bank teller, Starbucks coffee maker, pharmaceutical rep, etc.

3. Sure, age matters for some men—especially if kids are a priority—but it’s far from the only consideration. Things like emotional stability, financial maturity, cleanliness, drama levels, and overall compatibility often weigh heavier when deciding on commitment.
 
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Most likely, he just enjoys spending time with her.
 

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Because it's complete BS that a guy of Tom Brady's status can just go into a Mcdonalds in Iowa and bag a mcdonalds cash register. This is just a Hood Rich mentality spoken up by Hoods like Fresh and Fit and Alpha Male Strategies. Social economic classes tend to stick with each other.
Do you know how Cristiano Ronaldo met Georgina? He just went into a Gucci store where she was working as a sales assistant. :p
 

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Most likely, he just enjoys spending time with her.
Not much more to it then that. It's likely a bucket list kind of thing for him "I got to sleep with Sofia Vergara".

Even if we disagree with his preferences (I neve particularly found his ex wife all that and she's supposed to be a super model) doesnt change the fact he has legions of women who would willingly be with him, vrery attractive one's. He would not have to try very hard to get with them. This is why he's not a "schmuck", a schmuck would be getting with whoever they can out of desperation.

Veronika Rajek is a TB super fan.
 

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Do you know how Cristiano Ronaldo met Georgina? He just went into a Gucci store where she was working as a sales assistant. :p
You do realize they don't just hire bums and rats off the street to sell and advertise prestigious goods like Gucci, right? I didn't work at Gucci, but I did work at Abercrombie (when it was flaunty and waspy) and they weren't just putting cold bodies out in the store front. I would imagine Gucci takes their hiring to a whole new level lol.
 

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Tom Brady, for all his accolades, is still just a man in the dating market. Sometimes it’s “one date, no sex, no second date,” and other times he might casually date a few women before settling down—if he chooses to. Fame doesn’t eliminate the realities of modern dating.
I can't imagine a woman refusing a second date with Tom Brady if he offers. I could imagine Brady not having sex on a first date.

The only time Tom Brady would likely have a "one date, no sex, no second date" instance is if he rejects the woman.

:D Now we know what you like....
How? I tend to like fit White women the most.

his preferences
He has demonstrated some unusual choices in mating over time, with Bridget Moynahan during his playing career for a 2+ year period and now with Sofia Vergara.

He would not have to try very hard to get with them.
That is a privilege. Most guys are putting in a good amount of effort to seduce women.

This is why he's not a "schmuck", a schmuck would be getting with whoever they can out of desperation.
Some of his choices and patterns do come off as more beta. He has less desperation than a typical beta male/average frustrated chump.
 

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I can't imagine a woman refusing a second date with Tom Brady if he offers. I could imagine Brady not having sex on a first date.

The only time Tom Brady would likely have a "one date, no sex, no second date" instance is if he rejects the woman.



How? I tend to like fit White women the most.



He has demonstrated some unusual choices in mating over time, with Bridget Moynahan during his playing career for a 2+ year period and now with Sofia Vergara.



That is a privilege. Most guys are putting in a good amount of effort to seduce women.



Some of his choices and patterns do come off as more beta. He has less desperation than a typical beta male/average frustrated chump.
That's what i'm saying. We might disagree with who he decided to shack up with but he's getting with these women because he decides to do so. It's not due to a lack of options. Tom holds the cards, he's the real prize. Will take for example Gizel - there was something about her he found interesting & decide to commit - she was his preference. He could have very easily swapped her for another top model at the time had he so desired. He still can pull equivalent and "in demand" women without lifting a finger as evidenced by Sweeney. There's a good chance he did get with her at Bozo's wedding- she was likely "friendly" towards him the whole time. She has more to gain than the other way around.
 

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Even if we disagree with his preferences (I neve particularly found his ex wife all that and she's supposed to be a super model) doesnt change the fact he has legions of women who would willingly be with him, vrery attractive one's. He would not have to try very hard to get with them. This is why he's not a "schmuck", a schmuck would be getting with whoever they can out of desperation.
I couldn't care less who Brady wants to see, he should see whoever he pleases. I think it's interesting that he went for the trophy wife, but he went for a trophy wife who made more money than he did. That's a key thing. So when the inevitable divorce came (that's the usual result with a trophy wife), he didn't have to pay out massive alimony payments.
 

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He still can pull equivalent and "in demand" women without lifting a finger as evidenced by Sweeney. There's a good chance he did get with her at Bozo's wedding- she was likely "friendly" towards him the whole time. She has more to gain than the other way around.
^^Which calls into light something interesting.

He actually cozied up to both Sydney and Sophia at Bezos' wedding.

Rumor has it he left with Sweeney BUT is now romancing Sophia on the super yacht?

So who rejected who here?

Surely according to some a guy like Brady would never choose Sophia (53) over a young and hot Sydney (27), right?

So did Sydney reject him?

Oh, but wait! Didn't some of you say no woman would ever turn down Tom Brady?

In any event, sounds like Tom is having a great summer!! :lol:
 

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Rumor has it he left with Sweeney BUT is now romancing Sophia on the super yacht?
So who rejected who here?

Surely according to some a guy like Brady would never choose Sophia (53) over a young and hot Sydney (27), right?

So did Sydney reject him?

Oh, but wait! Didn't some of you say no woman would ever turn down Tom Brady?
To be honest, I don’t think Tom Brady slept with Sydney Sweeney at the wedding. He probably wanted to and so did she, but with the world spotlight of them, if someone took a photo of them in a hotel room or something, would have been catastrophic for both,

I don’t think Tom Brady is sleeping with Sofia either, He probably just wanted some more mature conversation, and talk to a famous Spanish actress.

My guess? Brady will get with Dakota Johnson, She’s hot for her age and wants kids, and he’s in perfect position to give her one.
 

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I don’t think Tom Brady is sleeping with Sofia either, He probably just wanted some more mature conversation, and talk to a famous Spanish actress.
Yeah, guys here seem to be thinking Brady isn't still with Sweeney, so he's a failure. Or worse than a failure, he's beta. But everything in life isn't about sex, believe it or not. Maybe Brady just got along better with Sofia, and had more to talk about with her, since she's closer to his age, and he enjoyed spending time with her more. Which is perfectly his right. Honestly, Sweeney's reputation as a worldwide sex symbol would be a bit of a turnoff for me, because I would expect her ego to be through the roof.
 

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Sydney Sweeney is overrated af. She looks like any MID skinny young twenties white girl you see on college campuses or MAA pool parties.
 

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Sofia is well known to be a passionate person who lives life with gusto. Some years ago I saw an interview of her on the Tonight Show (if memory serves)....She had on no earrings, no jewelry....she noticed this on live TV, and mid-sentence she exclaimed,

"Oh my God! I have on no jewelry!!! How did this happen!.....Everyone is fired!!!" The audience roared because it was a funny and very human moment... and she resumed the interview.

Needless to say after the next commercial break she had all her jewelry on. Hopefully no one was ACTUALLY fired.

Sweeny does not appear as genuine or comfortable in her own skin, does not seem to have the same personal magnetism as Vergara. Who knows. Whatever makes Tom happy. I personally find Vergara more interesting from afar, but who knows.
 

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Sydney Sweeney is overrated af. She looks like any MID skinny young twenties white girl you see on college campuses or MAA pool parties.
Her appeal is that she looks like the attractive early to mid 20s White female on college campuses or MAA pool parties. For those unfamiliar, MAA is an operator of apartment complexes in big cities in the USA Sun Belt. They tend to operate newer properties in neighborhoods in those cities that appeal to recent college graduates.

I don't think Sydney Sweeney is mid.

Her breasts are very appealing.

Brady will get with Dakota Johnson, She’s hot for her age and wants kids, and he’s in perfect position to give her one.
Interesting idea. Brady and Dakota Johnson have met. They run in the same social circle.


In any event, sounds like Tom is having a great summer!! :lol:
He is having a better summer than I am having.

Sweeny does not appear as genuine or comfortable in her own skin, does not seem to have the same personal magnetism as Vergara. Who knows. I personally find Vergara more interesting from afar, but who knows.
I would be far more interested in Sydney Sweeney. She's young right now and childless. For an early 40s male, a late 20s female is appealing. Vergara likely has more magnetism, but the youthfulness of Sweeney is a major advantage.
 
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I would be far more interested in Sydney Sweeney. She's young right now and childless. For an early 40s male, a late 20s female is appealing. Vergara likely has more magnetism, but the youthfulness of Sweeney is a major advantage.
If Brady prefers the company of Vergara, it's likely a personality thing.
 

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If Brady prefers the company of Vergara, it's likely a personality thing.
I agree. I can see how a 47 year old man would have more personality compatibility with a 52-53 year old woman as compared to a 27 year old.

A 40-42 year old man isn't close in age to either one. He hasn't had the same life experiences as either, so neither is likely to offer good personality compatibility. Looks would matters more and that's Sweeney's advantage with her youthfulness. Many 40-42 year old men would find it exciting to be in an interaction with a much younger woman.
 
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