"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tom and Gisele Hire Divorce Lawyers

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Uh oh.

We all predicted this.

I just bet some blue pill friends Tom will end up better off long term than she will. He’s in his financial peak and has a lucrative broadcasting career awaiting after he retires. Hopefully she doesn’t go the routes of Kim Kardashian or McKenzie Besos.

I may be in the minority but I believe divorcing a wealthy successful man like Brady is just stupid. She’s more replaceable than he is. Also, fvck her for allegedly asking him to give up football. Tom will be just fine.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You beat me to the bunch on posting this. :(

It's time for Tom to trade up to a younger model (literally). :cool:
 

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Tom Brady is more handsome now in his 40s than he was in his 30s and 20s. He could easily get himself a hottie 20-something.
 
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From another thread, @Jake_Gyllenhaal69 had an excellent observation.

Maybe we were just not meant to be monogamous long term.
I've believed that the shelf life of goodness in most romantic relationship is about 5 years. Getting 5 good years out of a relationship is an achievement. It doesn't matter how long a relationship lasts, the good years matter. I could name some couples from my personal life that were together somewhere between 7-14 years at the time the relationship ended and often times in those types of relationships, there was a slow decline from good to mediocre to subpar to intolerable.

Tom and Gisele have been together 15.5 years. That's well beyond my 5 years shelf life belief.

 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lol someone's getting a hex placed on them this season. Now that Tampa's out, who's coming out of the NFC? Niners defense looking stout so far this year.
 

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I mean if you can't be satisfied with Tom Brady as a husband, who the heck could possibly be good enough?
It’s not about her loving him. She finally realized that he loves the game and fame more than her. She was only his cheerleader and she outgrew that role.
 

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It’s not about her loving him. She finally realized that he loves the game and fame more than her. She was only his cheerleader and outgrew that role.
That’s how it’s supposed to be. Men serve god and their purpose. The wifes role is help meet. She is not the star of the show. Somewhere along the way the West got this all fvcked up.

Gisele is for the streets. A good wife does not force her husband off his purpose.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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That’s how it’s supposed to be. Men serve god and their purpose. The wifes role is help meet. She is not the star of the show. Somewhere along the way the West got this all fvcked up.

Gisele is for the streets. A good wife does not force her husband off his purpose.
When the time comes that a married couple want different things from their relationship and neither one or both don’t want to change, then a real change is needed.…
 

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When the time comes that a married couple want different things from their relationship and neither one wants to change, then a change is needed.
No. The problem with Western marriages is that women leave their husbands. The woman files 80% of the time. Marriage is not just some throw away relationship because the wife “feels differently.”

Gisele married an obsessive, GOAT (greatest of all time) NFL quarterback. He is the ultimate leader of men, and has been for nearly three decades. She is a fool to think it is her right to dictate when he stops playing.

Shame that this is now old school thinking:

Is he unemployed?
Is he physically abusive?
Does he have substance abuse issues?
Are hves running through the house?

If the answer to these is no, she needs to go figure out how to work things out with her husband.

Instead, she is choosing the streets where she belongs.
 

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No. The problem with Western marriages is that women leave their husbands. The woman files 80% of the time. Marriage is not just some throw away relationship because the wife “feels differently.”

Gisele married an obsessive, GOAT (greatest of all time) NFL quarterback. He is the ultimate leader of men, and has been for nearly three decades. She is a fool to think it is her right to dictate when he stops playing.

Shame that this is now old school thinking:

Is he unemployed?
Is he physically abusive?
Does he have substance abuse issues?
Are hves running through the house?

If the answer to these is no, she needs to go figure out how to work things out with her husband.

Instead, she is choosing the streets where she belongs.
I’m sure Tom would agree with you. She asked him to leave the nfl after 22 years and he didn’t. He’s about to lose a life game now that’s more important than any football game or season …
It’s always about priorities
 

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I’m sure Tom would agree with you. She asked him to leave the nfl after 22 years and he didn’t. He’s about to lose a life game now that’s more important than any football game or season …
It’s always about priorities
I am sure he would. Her request is one of a selfish bvtch. It is out of line. She married an NFL great. Her role as his wife is to support that. Family vs. Football is a false choice that she created.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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She’s a practicing witch, too.
I guess she couldn’t cast a strong enough spell on him.
 

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Who’s priorities?

Why is it assumed that her priorities take precedence over his priorities?

Wife’s role is to support husband, not control and extortion.
Her priority is family oriented, his priority is football.
Marriage is not a one sided affair, it’s a partnership, and they are Not meeting each others needs…
It’s called irreconcilable differences if they can’t meet halfway …
 

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Her priority is family oriented, his priority is football.
No, that is a false choice. You are regurgitating her framing.

The facts are, she willingly married an NFL superstar. She supported him through 12 NFL seasons. This season she is deciding to opt out.

Marriage is not a one sided affair, it’s a partnership, and they are Not meeting each others needs…
It’s called irreconcilable differences if they can’t meet halfway …
I agree. She chose to partner with an NFL superstar. All that entails. She doesn’t get an excuse to walk out now just because she is sick of it.
 

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Still not grounds or excuse for her failure as a wife though.
We only have a few facts and don’t really know what’s going on between them, but without a trial, she’s proclaimed at fault and guilty …
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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