Told her to call me

[scottfall]

Hey guys, need some help here..

I met a girl online monday night. Went over to her place, had a few drinks, messed around and then fell asleep together. I was getting really good vibes from her all night, she seemed really interested, wanted to know what I was doing the next day.. if I could stay the night. Well, the next day I get up.. hang out get dressed and smoke a cig while shes still in bed (she had a meeting that afternoon). Before I leave I give her a kiss goodbye and tell her to call me, she said she would. Didnt hear from her tuesday.. sent her a myspace friend request wednesday morning (she accepted it that night). Havent heard from her since tuesday morning. Just wondering if Im going to hear back from her or if I may have came off as needy.. telling her to call me and sending the friend request wednesday morning.

Thanks guys!

 

[HolyG]

You call girls, cause even if they're interested, 95% of the time they won't call you.

 

[scottfall]

sooo... should i call her tomorrow or wait until the weekend is over?

 

[MrGold]

wait til the weekend is over. dont make yourself too ready available.

 

[muscleman]

1) You should have gone as far as you could. I bet you could have laid her that night.

2) Don't ever say "call me". Just tell her "I'll call you". Keep the ball in your court.

 

[scottfall]

Thanks for the advice guys.

I regret telling her to call me. I thought about what to say while she was in bed and telling her to call me seemed like the way to go. Live and learn.

 

[scottfall]

OK, well I called her friday night, got forwarded to voicemail (after one ring). I got onto the same site I met her last night, and she was online. I sent her a message.. she responded. I asked her if she wanted to hang out, she said not tonight. And then I lost it. I asked if I was "barking up the wrong tree" - no response and then I said "well, you have my #" and left it at that.

Bah, o well... ill message her again in a couple of weeks if I dont hear anything from her.

 

[muscleman]

So leave it at that. Save your dignity, trust me word gets around. If she's interested she'll get a hold of you, otherwise there's not a damn thing you can do to change her mind.

Move on to the next one.

 

[AfRoSwiss-Disiac]

OK, well I called her friday night, got forwarded to voicemail (after one ring). I got onto the same site I met her last night, and she was online. I sent her a message.. she responded. I asked her if she wanted to hang out, she said not tonight. And then I lost it. I asked if I was "barking up the wrong tree" - no response and then I said "well, you have my #" and left it at that.

Bah, o well... ill message her again in a couple of weeks if I dont hear anything from her.

Aight man this is where u semi screwed up..
You should have not lost it:nono: . Sorry man but a DJ keeps his cool..and plus u gave her more power when u said "You have my number"
Its all good man this time if she does ask u to hang out YOU be the one to say that your busy!