Told her to ask me nicely, she gives me the number and says "if you want to"

[The Loner]

I was just IM'n a girl, who was at her Grandparent's house and was just about to leave. I've known her for quite some time, and we talk a lot. (Talk, not IM.)

Anyway, she said something to the effect of "I've got to get off the computer now... ttyl, unless you want to call me."

I decided I wanted to have her actually ask me outright to call her, because I didn't feel like being a begging dog jumping for scraps.

"I'll call you if you ask me nicely."

"nicely? interesting"

*bit of pause, I go back to my work*

"I have to go, the cell # is 555-5555, you can call me if you want to" (exits IM window)

So, she didn't even ask me, let alone ask me nicely. I didn't call her, I felt no obligation to do so.

What was she trying to say? Was she too shy to ask a boy to call her (a possibility)? Did she want to see if I would do what I said and only call her if she asked nicely? I'm not quite sure.

Any thoughts?

- Loner, who should get a new name as he has a whole platoon of chicks following him now

 

[Interpol]

Don't overanalyze. You have her number now, so call her sometime and set up a date.

 

[The Loner]

Originally posted by Interpol
Don't overanalyze. You have her number now, so call her sometime and set up a date.

Right. Forgot the overanalyze one for a minute.

Thanks.

 

[VIVAlasVEGASBaby]

Who cares????

your over analysing a BIT too much with this one. If you want to get technical she probably left you an open ended option to "call her" to see if you would or not. FOR instance

Rather than hand feed a treat to a dog i set it on the floor a few yards away to see how much the dog really wants it. I suppose it could be a useless attempt for her to find out how much you like her; but like i said

A) it doesn't matter
B) it's a waste of time worrying about it
C) it's a waste of time THINKING about it
D) who the hell gives a ****?
E) you should be worried about what you want to do, not what she wants you to do.

 

[AFK Protector]

OMG DUDE 555-5555 IS THE SAME NUMBER THIS CHICKS GAVE ME!!! I think we have the same one!! omg man. This so exciting!


All lame mockery aside, I'd agree with VIVAlasVEGASbaby and say, stop worrying about it. Keep her number. Call when you feel like it. And just stop analyzing stuff so much.

 

[MetalFortress]

WHO GIVES A CRAP??? She obviously wants you to call her, so stop being a prick.

 

[ohiofutballa]

Originally posted by MetalFortress
WHO GIVES A CRAP??? She obviously wants you to call her, so stop being a prick.

oooooo......so THAT is what PMS is like?

this girl has an attraction towards you, its obvious. Now is the time to capitalize

ohiofutballa

 

[Smooth as Anything]

14 years old...

In due time, I assure you that you will never have this dilemma again.

Maybe not for the better, though.

 

[Void]

you're the dominant one. You're on the pedestal not her. Tell her ... i know you're interested so i'll be expecting you to call. --- something like that ...yeah sounds a bit faggish. think of something that puts you on the pedestal and not her.

 

[MidwestFreek]

haha id play around with this for a while...next time u talk to her..if she mentions u not calling..be like "u didnt ask nicely" and just smile...n then later on be like..oh yah..i kinda forgot ur number too...here write it down (have a pen handy..and get her to write it on ur hand...u can have the other arm aronud her waist while she writes it...kino baby)