"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That i like her best freind, even tho she has a bf!

big mistake?

she pestered me for half hour or so to know who i like!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It may be in fact that it's her friend that likes you instead...look into that.
 

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I doubt it

i know it sounds like it and while we were having the convo i thought that myself but i asked why do ya care so much? is it coz u like me? she just said just tell me who u like!

in the past ive asked her out and shes said no

she also said when i said ill tell you who i like if u tell me who u like

she said (after a number of times of asking that) that a guy shes been hanging out with is cool as is my mate who we had gossiped a little earlier about breaking up with his gf!
 

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Also im probably gonna speak to the girl i like online tonite at sum point or tomorrow at college

anything i should do or say?
 

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I'll leave this one up to the veterans...

{and a little bump to boot}
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ok well.
i cant put how important it is that you keep your feelings to yourself. dont ask friends to put a "good word" in for you,it makes you look weak(girls can do it but we are men). always do stuff on your own.
 

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and now the gal i told comes online we start chatting and randomly she says

mike wot would u say if i said i love you?

i said cheese?

she said y cheese?

i said coz its random and what you said was random too

and she said ok lol

well i do

and i was like lol umm ok, i love you too lol?

not knowing if she was kidding or not

and she said cool see ya xxx

and went!

i know and please dont have a go at me for it that cheese is not the smoothest line, infact i said it coz i had no idea what to say and i didnt know if she was kidding which i think she is but im not sue!
 

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Originally posted by PeterCrouch
That i like her best freind, even tho she has a bf!

big mistake?

she pestered me for half hour or so to know who i like!

Well its my philosphy that you should never be ashamed that you like someone.you did nothing wrong!
 

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ok now read the rest of the thread and tell me what your philosiphy is!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This is screwed up. Stop talking to girls online.

you should call her
 

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Originally posted by PeterCrouch
That i like her best freind, even tho she has a bf!

big mistake?

she pestered me for half hour or so to know who i like!
what the hell man? thats like 5th grade
 

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Will someone answer me this: When these rookies come on here, read the advice of the seasoned veterans, the read the DJ Bible and supposedly "adjust" their thinking, why do they immediately go AFC again?

Dood!!! You know you are NOT suppose to reveal your feelings to a girl before you know how she feels about you!!!! That is like telling a crowd of people what happens in the last scene of a movie right after they bought their ticket!! You just FUVKED yourself for a number of reasons. The main one being, if this girl ever had any interest in you, it will slowly disappear over the next few weeks because she knows she has you. There is a balance of power that takes place when a guy courts a girl. The guy should never willingly give up his power!!

Now this girl might still talk to you like normal and all, but it will be mainly for attention, aka ****s and giggles!! Go find new girls and PLEASE don't make this mistake again!



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