"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Told her best freind

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That i like her best freind, even tho she has a bf!

big mistake?

she pestered me for half hour or so to know who i like!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It may be in fact that it's her friend that likes you instead...look into that.
 

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I doubt it

i know it sounds like it and while we were having the convo i thought that myself but i asked why do ya care so much? is it coz u like me? she just said just tell me who u like!

in the past ive asked her out and shes said no

she also said when i said ill tell you who i like if u tell me who u like

she said (after a number of times of asking that) that a guy shes been hanging out with is cool as is my mate who we had gossiped a little earlier about breaking up with his gf!
 

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Also im probably gonna speak to the girl i like online tonite at sum point or tomorrow at college

anything i should do or say?
 

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I'll leave this one up to the veterans...

{and a little bump to boot}
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ok well.
i cant put how important it is that you keep your feelings to yourself. dont ask friends to put a "good word" in for you,it makes you look weak(girls can do it but we are men). always do stuff on your own.
 

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and now the gal i told comes online we start chatting and randomly she says

mike wot would u say if i said i love you?

i said cheese?

she said y cheese?

i said coz its random and what you said was random too

and she said ok lol

well i do

and i was like lol umm ok, i love you too lol?

not knowing if she was kidding or not

and she said cool see ya xxx

and went!

i know and please dont have a go at me for it that cheese is not the smoothest line, infact i said it coz i had no idea what to say and i didnt know if she was kidding which i think she is but im not sue!
 

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Originally posted by PeterCrouch
That i like her best freind, even tho she has a bf!

big mistake?

she pestered me for half hour or so to know who i like!

Well its my philosphy that you should never be ashamed that you like someone.you did nothing wrong!
 

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ok now read the rest of the thread and tell me what your philosiphy is!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is screwed up. Stop talking to girls online.

you should call her
 

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Originally posted by PeterCrouch
That i like her best freind, even tho she has a bf!

big mistake?

she pestered me for half hour or so to know who i like!
what the hell man? thats like 5th grade
 

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Will someone answer me this: When these rookies come on here, read the advice of the seasoned veterans, the read the DJ Bible and supposedly "adjust" their thinking, why do they immediately go AFC again?

Dood!!! You know you are NOT suppose to reveal your feelings to a girl before you know how she feels about you!!!! That is like telling a crowd of people what happens in the last scene of a movie right after they bought their ticket!! You just FUVKED yourself for a number of reasons. The main one being, if this girl ever had any interest in you, it will slowly disappear over the next few weeks because she knows she has you. There is a balance of power that takes place when a guy courts a girl. The guy should never willingly give up his power!!

Now this girl might still talk to you like normal and all, but it will be mainly for attention, aka ****s and giggles!! Go find new girls and PLEASE don't make this mistake again!



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