“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Told a girl I don't want to date her but feeling guilty

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AlphaNoob

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Met a girl at a Thanksgiving party. Went back to my place and did stuff. Made a mistake by making food for her, talking about family, and letting her sleep over. Today we went to get lunch together and I didn't feel like I wanted to be seen with her maybe bc I don't find her as attractive as I did the first night when I was super horny. Told her I didn't want to do the dating thing and then she seemed upset and did not want to be friends and said I led her on.
She was the one who mentioned like relationship stuff at the second day hanging. And I was like we've only known each other for two days. And she was like but Romeo and Juliet fell in love in one day. I told her I did not know what I wanted before everything happened and I did not think someone could catch feelings in such short time. Maybe she was using that to guilt me into staying?
Like whenever I display a lot of value the girl suddenly doesnt have any friends or doesnt have anyone to take her to shopping or thinks every other guys are lame and doesnt only want to be friends, but when I slip and leak the low value she says she just wants to be friends or a good part of my life.
Teach me please I need more experience. I was literally a guy that only played video games and went to the library not so long ago.
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Dude, you brought her home, cooked with her, talked about family, let her sleep over and then have lunch with her. This is what's called "relationship vibe". If you were experienced enough, you could give this vibe and still handle the situation masterfully. Apparently, you are under pressure now to make it a relationship LOL

You have to learn to handle the woman in front of you. She starts acting relationship-y? You shrug it off, making innocent jokes and slaping her ass. Right now, you are with half a leg into her frame and you are stressed out cause you have no frame of your own. You got the chance here to have sex and keep this one low profile until/if you think otherwise but you ain't got the DJ skills to pull that off.

Hang around the forum and OBSERVE. You could learn a lot.
 
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These are the women you keep around for sex. Tell her "I'm not looking for a relationship right now, but maybe in the future." You can get 3 months of lays out of a chick like this.
 
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