"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Together with HB 9+, still unsure.

Zeus

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Hey guys! Its like this, i just got together with this beautiful girl. A kinda girl that everyone stares at when she walks by. Anyway shes into me, ALOT! But i dont know if i like her all that much as she likes me... I been thinking about it alot these last days. I mean, I have a beautiful girlfriend, successfull one too... She has her own bussniess, is very polite and the sex is awsome.

But somehow i think to myself that it wouldent be end of the world if she left me, or i dumped her. Its like i dont care. What the is the problem with me, am i to ****y or just plain stupid for thinking like this? Will the emotions grow as the times goes by?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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JustDoItAlways

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You have the perfect mindset for the HB9.

That is why she is so into you and the sex is good.

Keep it up.
 

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Thats a goot attitude to have, you dont have to be super clingy and in love, just relax and enjoy dont stress out too much about it.
 

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You're thinking the right way!
Emotions and deeper connection will come with time, you're facing it the right way now, keep it up, as the other guy said.
 

Zeus

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Heheh okey thanks for the input guys! Now to another "problem" if i dont feel so much for my girlfriend right now, its a problem cause i would like to meet other ladies and maybe i would feel much more with some other girl. But i hate people who are unfaithful and play dirty games. Iam always honest with people. So yours tips guys is to just take it easy and chill and everything will work it self out?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Zeus

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This is so simple, i refuse to sell myself short to some girl. Its my life, i do i as i please. If iam DJ (#1), then of course the girl is who by my side should me something of a queen, why settle for less! Now iam gonna make me some chicken wings and relax ;)
 

MrS

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Too much fat on wings, just eat some raw meat!
Rawr.
 
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