"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Together with HB 9+, still unsure.

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Hey guys! Its like this, i just got together with this beautiful girl. A kinda girl that everyone stares at when she walks by. Anyway shes into me, ALOT! But i dont know if i like her all that much as she likes me... I been thinking about it alot these last days. I mean, I have a beautiful girlfriend, successfull one too... She has her own bussniess, is very polite and the sex is awsome.

But somehow i think to myself that it wouldent be end of the world if she left me, or i dumped her. Its like i dont care. What the is the problem with me, am i to ****y or just plain stupid for thinking like this? Will the emotions grow as the times goes by?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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JustDoItAlways

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You have the perfect mindset for the HB9.

That is why she is so into you and the sex is good.

Keep it up.
 
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Thats a goot attitude to have, you dont have to be super clingy and in love, just relax and enjoy dont stress out too much about it.
 
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You're thinking the right way!
Emotions and deeper connection will come with time, you're facing it the right way now, keep it up, as the other guy said.
 
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Heheh okey thanks for the input guys! Now to another "problem" if i dont feel so much for my girlfriend right now, its a problem cause i would like to meet other ladies and maybe i would feel much more with some other girl. But i hate people who are unfaithful and play dirty games. Iam always honest with people. So yours tips guys is to just take it easy and chill and everything will work it self out?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This is so simple, i refuse to sell myself short to some girl. Its my life, i do i as i please. If iam DJ (#1), then of course the girl is who by my side should me something of a queen, why settle for less! Now iam gonna make me some chicken wings and relax ;)
 
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Too much fat on wings, just eat some raw meat!
Rawr.
 
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