"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Together with HB 9+, still unsure.

Zeus

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Hey guys! Its like this, i just got together with this beautiful girl. A kinda girl that everyone stares at when she walks by. Anyway shes into me, ALOT! But i dont know if i like her all that much as she likes me... I been thinking about it alot these last days. I mean, I have a beautiful girlfriend, successfull one too... She has her own bussniess, is very polite and the sex is awsome.

But somehow i think to myself that it wouldent be end of the world if she left me, or i dumped her. Its like i dont care. What the is the problem with me, am i to ****y or just plain stupid for thinking like this? Will the emotions grow as the times goes by?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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JustDoItAlways

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You have the perfect mindset for the HB9.

That is why she is so into you and the sex is good.

Keep it up.
 

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Thats a goot attitude to have, you dont have to be super clingy and in love, just relax and enjoy dont stress out too much about it.
 

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You're thinking the right way!
Emotions and deeper connection will come with time, you're facing it the right way now, keep it up, as the other guy said.
 

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Heheh okey thanks for the input guys! Now to another "problem" if i dont feel so much for my girlfriend right now, its a problem cause i would like to meet other ladies and maybe i would feel much more with some other girl. But i hate people who are unfaithful and play dirty games. Iam always honest with people. So yours tips guys is to just take it easy and chill and everything will work it self out?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Zeus

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This is so simple, i refuse to sell myself short to some girl. Its my life, i do i as i please. If iam DJ (#1), then of course the girl is who by my side should me something of a queen, why settle for less! Now iam gonna make me some chicken wings and relax ;)
 

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Too much fat on wings, just eat some raw meat!
Rawr.
 
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