“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Today's Woman: Monogamy vs. Female DJ

Dash Riprock

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I've been asking some of my platonic gf's about today's dating scene; if they like it, quality of guys, if they would rather just find one guy and focus on him or if they "enjoy" playing the field ala male DJ's. Seeing this is a "mature" board, let's focus on women over 25 or closer to 30 y.o.

Curious what DJ thoughts are on this topic.

Today's Female (25-35 y.o.): Monogamy all the way or Monogamy no-way, I'm a female DJ ??

Thoughts? What are you hearing from your chick buds?

Dash
 

ThunderMaverick

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It's been mixed all around. I get girls who say they want to play the field and not be exclusive. Of course these are coming from girls who have been in LTRs and have been burned badly by exes.

The ones who say "monogamy all the way" are usually virgins or ones who haven't been in too many relationships. Funny, because I think after so many relationships, the virgins are going to be screaming about how they love to play the field.

Hahaha. Are men and women REALLY that good for each other anymore?
 

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ALL Women want to find 1 guy who has money (so she doesn't have to contribute any), looks good, tall, gives great sex and willing to do what she says to a certain extent but makes the decisions when it comes to maintaining money and lifestyle.

I'm not sure how I feel about women these days..I don't want to say I'm jaded because I can recognize good qualities in a girl whom compliments my life very well but they don't seem willing to commit to me other than fun and sex...
 

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The majority of them are pretty open about wanting to settle down. The rest put on the "I'm an independent woman, hear me roar" front, but if you look deeper you can tell these women want the same.
 

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I don't know man, I chase women who don't want a relationship, that way I can blame them for me not being in a relationship ....

so I guess I meet all the chicks who don't want one ! !

:rockon:
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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