"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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today's approach... just let me know what u think!

lokariototal

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So i was at the student union about an hour and a half ago, and there was a girl speaking spanish with an older woman... she was standing and the old woman was sitting on the chair (they were speaking at a table). my college is full of people from Peru, so i asked them, r u guys peruvian :) ? and they said oh no! *giggle* im from mexico bla bla bla ohh i see.. and U? where r u from (to the old woman) Ohh! im from peru.. "ohh taht's nice!" and said.... and they were like and u? and i said where i was from.. and we started talking about our majors and so on.. then, me and the girl sat on the table and just had a normal converastion... it was me, the older woman and her talking... it was very nice.... i also touched her back when she said how hard her year was and so on... during this time ,i was thinking "how can I escalate and touch her hand"?, "how can I escalate to do a kiss close tonight?". When we were sitting i wanted to find a way to escalate, maybe to hold hands or somethign? Why? because I want to escalate fast so i dont end up in friends zone. By the end of the conversation, i got her number. This was in about 10 minutes.

Do u think i rushed too fast to touch her?? I mean, is the student union a place to escalate? (maybe my problem is that i try to rush TOO much!)

I've seen many videos of guys kissing girls in few minutes, so i am trying to do that! There's a video of a guy that kisses a girl in 12 minutes. My goal was to isolate her by using kino, then warming her up a bit, so that she will agree to isolate with me. Also, when I try to isolate i feel like a creeper. If i'd say something like "hey, do u wanna go sit over there at the sofa" i would feel like a creeper, cuz it's kinda obvious what i want to do.. What's the way of isolating without looking like a creeper?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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blueline

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student union is a terrible place to escalate to a kiss, especially when she's in a set. you must, must isolate to escalate.

man, kclosing in 15 minutes or so is not hard at all if you're in a two set, the girl gives you some IOI's, and your wing is decent. I pulled it off in about 15 minutes on my first kclose ever. (i don't even remember what that ***** looked like now, LOL).
 

lokariototal

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blueline said:
student union is a terrible place to escalate, especially when she's in a set. you must, must isolate to escalate.

man, kclosing in 15 minutes or so is not hard at all if you're in a two set, the girl gives you some IOI's, and your wing is decent. I pulled it off in about 15 minutes on my first kclose ever. (i don't even remember what that ***** looked like now, LOL).
1. yeah but Hi do YOU isolate? cause, i dunno to me saying something like "hey, let's go over there and sit in the couch" or hey "lets go to my room" MY INTENTIONS SEEM OBVIOUS! and I fee like a creeper when i say thgs like that.!!! how would u isolate in that situaton? maybe like hey!, do u wanna take a walk?

2.Why do u say it becaomes EASIER when u isolate? because she will touch u more (or make it easier for u to escalate?) kino in general feels a bit hard for me to do... i just dont seem to know how to do it properly.. why would u say it would be easier in isolation?????

3. the very few times ive tried to isolate it felt weird, and that it wouldnt work. is this normal??

4.if u have msn leave me ur addy as a personall message and i will add ya
 
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