"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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today's approach... just let me know what u think!

lokariototal

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So i was at the student union about an hour and a half ago, and there was a girl speaking spanish with an older woman... she was standing and the old woman was sitting on the chair (they were speaking at a table). my college is full of people from Peru, so i asked them, r u guys peruvian :) ? and they said oh no! *giggle* im from mexico bla bla bla ohh i see.. and U? where r u from (to the old woman) Ohh! im from peru.. "ohh taht's nice!" and said.... and they were like and u? and i said where i was from.. and we started talking about our majors and so on.. then, me and the girl sat on the table and just had a normal converastion... it was me, the older woman and her talking... it was very nice.... i also touched her back when she said how hard her year was and so on... during this time ,i was thinking "how can I escalate and touch her hand"?, "how can I escalate to do a kiss close tonight?". When we were sitting i wanted to find a way to escalate, maybe to hold hands or somethign? Why? because I want to escalate fast so i dont end up in friends zone. By the end of the conversation, i got her number. This was in about 10 minutes.

Do u think i rushed too fast to touch her?? I mean, is the student union a place to escalate? (maybe my problem is that i try to rush TOO much!)

I've seen many videos of guys kissing girls in few minutes, so i am trying to do that! There's a video of a guy that kisses a girl in 12 minutes. My goal was to isolate her by using kino, then warming her up a bit, so that she will agree to isolate with me. Also, when I try to isolate i feel like a creeper. If i'd say something like "hey, do u wanna go sit over there at the sofa" i would feel like a creeper, cuz it's kinda obvious what i want to do.. What's the way of isolating without looking like a creeper?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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blueline

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student union is a terrible place to escalate to a kiss, especially when she's in a set. you must, must isolate to escalate.

man, kclosing in 15 minutes or so is not hard at all if you're in a two set, the girl gives you some IOI's, and your wing is decent. I pulled it off in about 15 minutes on my first kclose ever. (i don't even remember what that ***** looked like now, LOL).
 

lokariototal

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blueline said:
student union is a terrible place to escalate, especially when she's in a set. you must, must isolate to escalate.

man, kclosing in 15 minutes or so is not hard at all if you're in a two set, the girl gives you some IOI's, and your wing is decent. I pulled it off in about 15 minutes on my first kclose ever. (i don't even remember what that ***** looked like now, LOL).
1. yeah but Hi do YOU isolate? cause, i dunno to me saying something like "hey, let's go over there and sit in the couch" or hey "lets go to my room" MY INTENTIONS SEEM OBVIOUS! and I fee like a creeper when i say thgs like that.!!! how would u isolate in that situaton? maybe like hey!, do u wanna take a walk?

2.Why do u say it becaomes EASIER when u isolate? because she will touch u more (or make it easier for u to escalate?) kino in general feels a bit hard for me to do... i just dont seem to know how to do it properly.. why would u say it would be easier in isolation?????

3. the very few times ive tried to isolate it felt weird, and that it wouldnt work. is this normal??

4.if u have msn leave me ur addy as a personall message and i will add ya
 
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