"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Today, this thought came to my mind...

Ambition Now

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THANK GOD FOR SOSUAVE.COM!!!

Here is the story, I work with a guy, 52 years old man, one son that dont live with him anymore, married for at least 20 years. His wife, an image and status obsessed and abusive bitc* recently left home, for the last 10 years this guy was cheated on and disrespected in so many ways.

On his last birthday, his wife passed the whole day out of home, without even telling why she did it or where she was.

Last week his wife wasnt feeling so good and went to the hospital, nothing too serious, this man went to the hospital to see if she was OK, at the hospital he met the new boyfriend of his wife (he didnt knew his wife had a boyfriend).

Now his wife calls him at work almost like everyday saying that he is not being supportive, not acting like a friend and stuff, and the sad part is that this guy is so clueless he doesnt even know what to do, he even received a call from his ex-wife sister and she was saying that he should give her a chance and stuff...

For gods sake!!! This man has been a massive submissive AFC for all his life, now he is completly lost!!!

I think I will use this story for my whole life as a reminder: NEVER let it happen to me! NEVER!!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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men have become women and women have become men....I know that if it wasnt for this website I would be a puzzy at this moment and would have died a puzzy.
 

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Let us strive to educate our fellow man, in order that they should revert from turning into giant walking talking vaginas.
 

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Tell him to read the DJ Bible.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ambition Now

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Cableguy said:
Tell him to read the DJ Bible.
Yeah, I gave him some advices, but he didnt seemed to get it, i'll sure tell him to read the DJ Bible!
 

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Ambition Now said:
Yeah, I gave him some advices, but he didnt seemed to get it, i'll sure tell him to read the DJ Bible!
Advice from you isn't necessarily the same as him reading things for himself. If he even wants to. Encourage him.
 

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Cableguy said:
Advice from you isn't necessarily the same as him reading things for himself. If he even wants to. Encourage him.
Of couse, we were just talking today and I told him to move on, cut contact and stuff, and he was like "I cant act like that" "I am not that type of person".

I will show him the DJ Bible and I hope that he must be willing to do the work he has to do.
 

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Show him posts by Rollo and Jophil.

I'll edit some in I have in mind if I can find them.
 

Ambition Now

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KontrollerX said:
Show him posts by Rollo and Jophil.

I'll edit some in I have in mind if I can find them.
Including you I will show him some of my favorite posters here: WC2, STR8UP, Rollo, Interceptor, Pook, Warrior74...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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