"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Today, this thought came to my mind...

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THANK GOD FOR SOSUAVE.COM!!!

Here is the story, I work with a guy, 52 years old man, one son that dont live with him anymore, married for at least 20 years. His wife, an image and status obsessed and abusive bitc* recently left home, for the last 10 years this guy was cheated on and disrespected in so many ways.

On his last birthday, his wife passed the whole day out of home, without even telling why she did it or where she was.

Last week his wife wasnt feeling so good and went to the hospital, nothing too serious, this man went to the hospital to see if she was OK, at the hospital he met the new boyfriend of his wife (he didnt knew his wife had a boyfriend).

Now his wife calls him at work almost like everyday saying that he is not being supportive, not acting like a friend and stuff, and the sad part is that this guy is so clueless he doesnt even know what to do, he even received a call from his ex-wife sister and she was saying that he should give her a chance and stuff...

For gods sake!!! This man has been a massive submissive AFC for all his life, now he is completly lost!!!

I think I will use this story for my whole life as a reminder: NEVER let it happen to me! NEVER!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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men have become women and women have become men....I know that if it wasnt for this website I would be a puzzy at this moment and would have died a puzzy.
 
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Let us strive to educate our fellow man, in order that they should revert from turning into giant walking talking vaginas.
 
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Tell him to read the DJ Bible.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cableguy said:
Tell him to read the DJ Bible.
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Yeah, I gave him some advices, but he didnt seemed to get it, i'll sure tell him to read the DJ Bible!
 
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Ambition Now said:
Yeah, I gave him some advices, but he didnt seemed to get it, i'll sure tell him to read the DJ Bible!
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Advice from you isn't necessarily the same as him reading things for himself. If he even wants to. Encourage him.
 
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Cableguy said:
Advice from you isn't necessarily the same as him reading things for himself. If he even wants to. Encourage him.
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Of couse, we were just talking today and I told him to move on, cut contact and stuff, and he was like "I cant act like that" "I am not that type of person".

I will show him the DJ Bible and I hope that he must be willing to do the work he has to do.
 
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Show him posts by Rollo and Jophil.

I'll edit some in I have in mind if I can find them.
 
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KontrollerX said:
Show him posts by Rollo and Jophil.

I'll edit some in I have in mind if I can find them.
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Including you I will show him some of my favorite posters here: WC2, STR8UP, Rollo, Interceptor, Pook, Warrior74...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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