"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Today so far....

jimjam

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Gents,

Wanted to put this out there. Mind you, I haven't done anything like this in years, so even this is a real victory for me.

Went grocery shopping r this morning. See this one look at me as I enter the store. Mid 30s, Brown hair, not bad, maybe a six. Anyway, she walks past me, looks at me and I say "Hi'" to which she puts her head down and walks away. So what? I still felt good that I even said anything.

Then I have to go to walmart. See one in there who I've spoken to before, light flirting but it never went anywhere. She works there. Great body. Cute. Probably a seven even with all of her tattoos. Though I don't have a problem with that. I don't find them attractive, but I don't find them unattractive either. Guess they're not an issue for me either way. Anyway. She looks at me. I smile and walk over and she looks the other way. Another victory. At least I know where I stand with her. Next.

Maybe I struck out. But I don't see it that way. Just felt like bragging.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Die Hard

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Baby steps, my friend, baby steps...

Congrats on getting out of your comfort zone, keep it up! :up:
 

Peaks&Valleys

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jimjam said:
.... she walks past me, looks at me and I say "Hi'" to which she puts her head down and walks away.
Have probably had this happen to me 100,000 times. This is the extent of my day game. Even if she was attracted to you, you saying hi is unexpected and probably caught her off guard, unless they're overly friendly or used to that sorta thing, they'll do the only thing they know how which is to ignore and walk away. There's actually a good chance, if she was single, that she's at home kicking herself for not stopping and talking to you. Just be ready for when one does stop and say hi back :)

Keep it up. Like the poster above said, baby steps.
 
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