"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Today so far....

jimjam

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Gents,

Wanted to put this out there. Mind you, I haven't done anything like this in years, so even this is a real victory for me.

Went grocery shopping r this morning. See this one look at me as I enter the store. Mid 30s, Brown hair, not bad, maybe a six. Anyway, she walks past me, looks at me and I say "Hi'" to which she puts her head down and walks away. So what? I still felt good that I even said anything.

Then I have to go to walmart. See one in there who I've spoken to before, light flirting but it never went anywhere. She works there. Great body. Cute. Probably a seven even with all of her tattoos. Though I don't have a problem with that. I don't find them attractive, but I don't find them unattractive either. Guess they're not an issue for me either way. Anyway. She looks at me. I smile and walk over and she looks the other way. Another victory. At least I know where I stand with her. Next.

Maybe I struck out. But I don't see it that way. Just felt like bragging.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Die Hard

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Baby steps, my friend, baby steps...

Congrats on getting out of your comfort zone, keep it up! :up:
 

Peaks&Valleys

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jimjam said:
.... she walks past me, looks at me and I say "Hi'" to which she puts her head down and walks away.
Have probably had this happen to me 100,000 times. This is the extent of my day game. Even if she was attracted to you, you saying hi is unexpected and probably caught her off guard, unless they're overly friendly or used to that sorta thing, they'll do the only thing they know how which is to ignore and walk away. There's actually a good chance, if she was single, that she's at home kicking herself for not stopping and talking to you. Just be ready for when one does stop and say hi back :)

Keep it up. Like the poster above said, baby steps.
 
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