"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Today so far....

jimjam

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Gents,

Wanted to put this out there. Mind you, I haven't done anything like this in years, so even this is a real victory for me.

Went grocery shopping r this morning. See this one look at me as I enter the store. Mid 30s, Brown hair, not bad, maybe a six. Anyway, she walks past me, looks at me and I say "Hi'" to which she puts her head down and walks away. So what? I still felt good that I even said anything.

Then I have to go to walmart. See one in there who I've spoken to before, light flirting but it never went anywhere. She works there. Great body. Cute. Probably a seven even with all of her tattoos. Though I don't have a problem with that. I don't find them attractive, but I don't find them unattractive either. Guess they're not an issue for me either way. Anyway. She looks at me. I smile and walk over and she looks the other way. Another victory. At least I know where I stand with her. Next.

Maybe I struck out. But I don't see it that way. Just felt like bragging.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Die Hard

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Baby steps, my friend, baby steps...

Congrats on getting out of your comfort zone, keep it up! :up:
 

Peaks&Valleys

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jimjam said:
.... she walks past me, looks at me and I say "Hi'" to which she puts her head down and walks away.
Have probably had this happen to me 100,000 times. This is the extent of my day game. Even if she was attracted to you, you saying hi is unexpected and probably caught her off guard, unless they're overly friendly or used to that sorta thing, they'll do the only thing they know how which is to ignore and walk away. There's actually a good chance, if she was single, that she's at home kicking herself for not stopping and talking to you. Just be ready for when one does stop and say hi back :)

Keep it up. Like the poster above said, baby steps.
 
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