Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Today I felt really bad about this....

MoBo

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My friend (and I do mean my friend, not me) got shot down by another girl, and he was so depressed about it it was saddening, and I'm not the type to get "sad" over stuff. He was talking to my other friends girl and was saying stuff like "I know I'm not good looking and all, but I just don't get why she doesn't like me".

I really badly wanted to tell him about this place and about "The Game" and other things, but he really can't keep his mouth shut, and last time I tried to get a friend to be my wingman and learn this stuff with me, they all were like "Dude, thats wierd and nerdy!" and ****, so I don't really want to tell em about it, lol.

Oh well, the guy thinks I'm an ******* anyways, so it won't hurt to do nothing, but it won't help either. I guess I'll let him find out on his own like I did.


Lol, well thats my rant for the day.

-MoBo
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Axcell

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I've been in the same position.
A guy I knew did not understand NOTHING at all about girls - he was being the nice guy and he constantly got told off by girls in front of my face. Last week, he was trying to develop rapport with this girl a year younger than us - and he got shown down when the girl said, "I have a boyfriend." And he just became silent and took that comment to the face instead of using that to say something ****y/funny.
I told him some tips - however, I regret it. Do NOT tell him about this site, no offense. From what it sounds like, you guys are both in high school.. it might make him disregard you. I know it did that for me. I would never tell anybody in real life about a site I visit, but I help a lot of guys out.. and when I helped him out, he ended up telling a lot of other girls some advice I told him, which was NOT the best thing ever - it was really bad actually.
Than I had people calling me a player, etc. Keep some information to yourself, give him some advice, but the rest.. he has got to figure on his own. I guess it all comes down to how much of a good friend he is to you - obviously this guy that I knew was not such a great friend, since he started BS talking about me and started talking about our private conversations in front of potential dating partners of mine.
Good luck.
 
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