"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Today I felt really bad about this....

MoBo

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My friend (and I do mean my friend, not me) got shot down by another girl, and he was so depressed about it it was saddening, and I'm not the type to get "sad" over stuff. He was talking to my other friends girl and was saying stuff like "I know I'm not good looking and all, but I just don't get why she doesn't like me".

I really badly wanted to tell him about this place and about "The Game" and other things, but he really can't keep his mouth shut, and last time I tried to get a friend to be my wingman and learn this stuff with me, they all were like "Dude, thats wierd and nerdy!" and ****, so I don't really want to tell em about it, lol.

Oh well, the guy thinks I'm an ******* anyways, so it won't hurt to do nothing, but it won't help either. I guess I'll let him find out on his own like I did.


Lol, well thats my rant for the day.

-MoBo
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Axcell

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I've been in the same position.
A guy I knew did not understand NOTHING at all about girls - he was being the nice guy and he constantly got told off by girls in front of my face. Last week, he was trying to develop rapport with this girl a year younger than us - and he got shown down when the girl said, "I have a boyfriend." And he just became silent and took that comment to the face instead of using that to say something ****y/funny.
I told him some tips - however, I regret it. Do NOT tell him about this site, no offense. From what it sounds like, you guys are both in high school.. it might make him disregard you. I know it did that for me. I would never tell anybody in real life about a site I visit, but I help a lot of guys out.. and when I helped him out, he ended up telling a lot of other girls some advice I told him, which was NOT the best thing ever - it was really bad actually.
Than I had people calling me a player, etc. Keep some information to yourself, give him some advice, but the rest.. he has got to figure on his own. I guess it all comes down to how much of a good friend he is to you - obviously this guy that I knew was not such a great friend, since he started BS talking about me and started talking about our private conversations in front of potential dating partners of mine.
Good luck.
 
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