EmotionalGeek
Senior Don Juan
Today, I did my first day time approach in crowded place. I entered the restaurant and looked arround for a table. There was a small table free and big table for many groups available. There was one girl at the table. I picked chair separated from her chair by two other chairs and asked if it is taken. She said no. She was constantly writing something on her phone. I sat. After a while I called my phone to set up our meeting for next week. I did it to build some social value (meeting was planed before I called to confirm and worm up my social muscles). Waitress came and I ordered salad and tee. After a while I noticed she drinks fancy drink (still on the phone). Without any thinking and hesitation or thinking about other people I opened:
- That is really nice drink
(I saw beautiful smile appearing on her face but she is still writing on the phone)
- yeah.
- It is quite coloful. Must be tasty.
- It is just normal tea.
- yeah, "normal red tee" with lot of fruits.
silence on her part
I ran out of things to say but I thought that I will reopen in a minute. After few minutes her boyfriend came and they switched table.
After a while two womans about 5 and 10 years older then me came near. Younger where looking at me and I think this was because I opened previous girl. I did not like her looks so I did not start conversation. Few minutes later another two womans came. One 27 or something other looked like her mother or aunt. Younger was fine but I was embarassed by presence of her mother. Additionaly they were talking about trip of younger one with her female friends. I did not know much about destination city so I did not have any topic to start conversation -- They both had same tees that first girl but it was strange to use it as another opener.
Anyway I opened without hesitation -- My consious brain must have not been working at the moment which was big advantege and opener was indirect so it was helpful in such crowded place. For the next hour whenever I reminded myself of the situation I felt really good. I did not find any other girl to open this day -- I picked wrong street and it was really cold.
- That is really nice drink
(I saw beautiful smile appearing on her face but she is still writing on the phone)
- yeah.
- It is quite coloful. Must be tasty.
- It is just normal tea.
- yeah, "normal red tee" with lot of fruits.
silence on her part
I ran out of things to say but I thought that I will reopen in a minute. After few minutes her boyfriend came and they switched table.
After a while two womans about 5 and 10 years older then me came near. Younger where looking at me and I think this was because I opened previous girl. I did not like her looks so I did not start conversation. Few minutes later another two womans came. One 27 or something other looked like her mother or aunt. Younger was fine but I was embarassed by presence of her mother. Additionaly they were talking about trip of younger one with her female friends. I did not know much about destination city so I did not have any topic to start conversation -- They both had same tees that first girl but it was strange to use it as another opener.
Anyway I opened without hesitation -- My consious brain must have not been working at the moment which was big advantege and opener was indirect so it was helpful in such crowded place. For the next hour whenever I reminded myself of the situation I felt really good. I did not find any other girl to open this day -- I picked wrong street and it was really cold.
